Ok here's the thing-someone in school whom i don't know is really giving me a hard time. On Friday, i came back from break and suddenly, my classmate asked me why did i scold her and hearing this, i was thus taken aback for i did not scold her. So i told her that i didn't do it and i asked for the person who said that. She then shouted at me saying that it was none of my business if i didn't scold. But i only asked her just so i can find the person and try clear up the mess. Now she (my classmate) is pissed with me. How am I going to ever find out who said such mean things about me?
2007-01-13 15:49:01 · 6 answers · asked by Clemence 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am having this exact same bullsh!t at my job. It's called "passive-aggressive bullying" or something. I had to go online and check it out because it was driving me nuts. They say let her be... so I did. After I ignored everything she was attempting to do, she moved on to another victim. It happens because they are jealous.
2007-01-13 15:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your going to have to do an inventory of anyone you have talked to in at least the last 3-4 days prior. Then, by process of elimination,think of any one of those class mates that may have taken something you may have said the wrong way. What may help is of coarse, is someone who you think would confide in the person that approached you. If it were me, I just say to the one that questioned you,...Have who ever it was that is accusing me of scolding her, come to me so we can sit down and talk this over, maybe I just said something that was innocently misconstrued, and you'd like to straighten things out.
No one needs petty little cat fights going on.
2007-01-14 00:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not, it's high school, right? People talk, gossip and everything else. I think it's great your trying to prove your innocence, but in school, one second they hate you, the next, your the best person around. Don't be so concerned on what others think of you or say about you. Be who you are. Good Luck
2007-01-13 23:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you need to actuallly talk to who ever it is. Okay listen talk to them and be honest with who eva let them know that you only wanted to clear up the rumor or what ever that you was looking out for them.
2007-01-13 23:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Angelia W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it, the more its talked about the deeper it gets...just forget it.
2007-01-13 23:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care, and just let it go.
2007-01-14 00:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋