My two friends backastabbed me at lunch on Friday. They told two kids that I said they suck (I didn't say that) and now the two kids hate me. I don't wanna sit at their table anymore but I have two other friends who sit there. I have the option of sitting next to some other kids that I know and I think they're a lot nicer. What do I do? Should I just sit with the other kids?
2007-01-13 15:45:37 · 13 answers · asked by Steve C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The are NOT you friends.You dont need them
2007-01-13 15:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by white dove 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a way to do this. If your friends that sit next to the two kids that backstabbed you knew the situation, would they still be friends with those two? If not, then invite them to sit with you and the other kids that you know. If they want to sit by the two kids who backstabbed you, then they are not your true friends.
Simply, sit by the other kids, invite your friends to sit there also. you will find out who is your quality friends here really fast.
2007-01-13 15:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pauly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Encouraging drug use or smoking isn't a good aspect to finish that I wont. sex for individuals in effortless words in eighth grade is likewise something I should not be encouraging so.. per chance you should commence some golf equipment or carry an pastime or connect a lunch time activities crew - or after college activities communities -- per chance a number of the individuals on the communities or golf equipment actually have the same lunch as you. Wow in the journey that they are speaking about you and also you arn't paranoid or delusional then per chance if you're saying something like. "hi there Stallion (enter call the following) wanna have lunch jointly?" Addictions and risky sex isn't the solutions - save your grade up - per chance you are able to promote a learn team. good success. (get well out of your shyness even if it truly is what you're searching to do by technique of being proactive.. your smart... uhm or manage having no individual to consult) health by no skill hurts until eventually your body starts failing or you seem as if a lady body builder (not that something is incorrect with that, because it takes a large number of skill and dedication to develop right into a international type lady body builder)
2016-11-23 17:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let people get 2 u like that because you're gonna meet people like this 4 the rest of your life and they gonna do the same thing. Just seperate yourself from them and when i say that it doesnt necessarily mean u hav to sit at another table jus dont pay them any attenetion.
2007-01-13 15:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its gonna be all right. Just sit w/ the other kids until things cool down, okay? You did nothing wrong.
2007-01-13 15:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
hey, sit with the other kids as if u dont like it then dont sit with them k good luck
2007-01-13 15:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by NAUGHTY GURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them
pay absolutely no attention to them
treat hem as if they were not even there
and go on with your limited social life / circle
sooner or later you'll learn who can be trusted and who can't
and how to pick better friends
2007-01-13 15:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem. sigh. People can be so mean at times. If i were you, i'd dump those 2 "friends" of mine and i would do the same to them like what they did to you.
2007-01-13 15:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Clemence 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask the kids 2 help them realize that it was a lie. just keep trying they'll come around.
2007-01-13 15:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Hopeicouldhelp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if they are treating you like that then they are not your friends. I would set with your real friends... the ones that are nicer.
2007-01-13 15:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the kids that you are accused of talking ab that you didn't say that...oh how I wish this was my biggest problem in life..I miss those younger days lol
2007-01-13 15:49:47 · answer #11 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋