my b-f and i have been going out for over a year and last two times we have been together i have woken up to him pleauring himself.. should i be woried that he does this? what does it mean?
2007-01-13 15:44:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
why didn't you take over when you woke up
2007-01-13 15:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
No not necessarily. My husband has said that he has woken up to me pleasuring myself. I don't really remember it clearly but I have been having a lot of sexual dreams lately. Maybe that's it..? I think it's pretty normal for men to do that. I wouldn't be too worried about it although it does kinda make you wonder...When my husband and I were first together I have woken up to him doing that too and it actually turned me on ALOT. I never told him but I sure gave it to him the next time we had sex.
2007-01-13 15:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called MASTERBATION. You should take over when he is doing this. Maybe he didn't want to wake you and he woke up with a hard on, which most men have in the morning when they wake up...Trust me I had been with my ex for 10 years. Don't be too concerned. He is not a pervert. He needs to release. I masterbate 5 times a day, but I am single.
2007-01-13 15:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anna S...you're literally not his spouse :O) in case you've been you've indicated that from the starting up. No massive deal sweetie...your question looks slightly premature. On one hand you recognize you're solid in mattress, then you ask the question searching for solutions. no you may choose your intimacy concepts. the most pleasurable answer might want to be to ask your guy. likely he's a guy that would not get emotionally excited..i guess :O) Intimacy is about 2 human beings pleasurable one yet another. not basically him stroking your ego. He might want to yell scream, moan and kick....would not propose something. search for suggestion from out of your guy he's the purely who can choose the action contained in the bedroom. solid success honey :O)
2016-12-02 05:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by jaffar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask him why is he doing that and if you are willing let him know that if he would wake you that you would be glad to do it for him or to just have intercourse with him in the morning alot of guys have that wake up in the morning with a hard on and need to take care of it but if it bothers you just offer to do it for him and let him know that it makes you uncomfortable what he does that while your there but dont let it get you down its just a guy thing its not that he isnt pleased with you he just needs it at that time and probley doesnt want to disturb you
2007-01-13 15:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sawyers girl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A few times I woke to find my husband had one arm around me and was "entertaining" himself with the other hand. Sometimes I moved his hand and finished it for him, other times I just went back to sleep. He seemed happy either Way, so I never thought anything of it. Don't over-think it.
2007-01-13 15:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry. Watch him. He might get turned on by it. Talk to each other, it may be a new avenue, but you must be comfortable with masturbation also. Have a great year.
2007-01-13 15:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by firestarter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Means your not doing your job. Help him out. If you see him doing it ask if you can join in. Tell him to wake you up if he wants some at night and you tell him that you will wake him up when you want some at night.
2007-01-13 19:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not have wanted to disturb you...open communication between two people who supposedly love one another is a key element. Sex communication is vital in any relationship.
2007-01-13 15:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by bflogal77 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
don´t worry. masturbation is not a singles´ resource only.
Now if you don´t have a sex life together at all, then that would be a problem. Otherwise, it´s normal.
2007-01-13 15:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by No se 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a too bog of an issue some guys do this from time to time..he might not be getting enough...rock is world..it always helps
2007-01-13 15:48:54 · answer #11 · answered by <-K:N:O:X-> 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋