My bestfriend only calls me when she wants to hang out. Half the time I can never get a hold of her. And when I talk to her she always says she has to go and do somthing. and then Ill find her online and ILL ask her why she isnt doing what she had to do and she will make up an excuse. when we hang out she calls me names and says I dont know anything. and ILL tell her thats not cool and she will say o Im just joking and she does it all the time. I dont want to stop being friends with her because of it but it realy bothers me. Iv tried talking to her but it doesnt work what should I do? help!
2007-01-13 15:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Theres not much people my age were I live in fact she is the only one and we are still a year different. I dont know what to do. please I need good advise
2007-01-13 15:50:17 · update #1
Well coca cola you have only a very few options to choose from 1 you could deal with it like a complete dummy or you could start acting the same way toward her/him or you could do what a smart person would do and leave that person alone because trust me when GOD made one he made plenty sweetheart enough for everyone posise im sure there's some one who could be your best friend. why would you let some thing like that bother you anyways? Well that's all the advice i could give you afortunately i have to go if none of the advice works hit me back !!!!
2007-01-13 15:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Angelia W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may be avoiding you because there are some new issues she has to face. Being lovers after being friends for 15 years is a major step. Also you are moving away, so that is a major issue and she is probably having a lot of problems dealing with that. She probably is getting mixed signals. You claim you love her but you have to move away from her. That would confuse me too. Imagine if you two become lovers, and something bad happens. Will you be able to be just friends again... or will you throw away 15 years of friendship. I would just confront your friend and ask her why she is avoiding you. Its understandable that she doesnt want to leave her home, and that you don't want to leave her. Try to find a suitable compromise in this mess.
2016-05-23 23:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend does something like that. He makes up excuses to not hang out with me. It might be because your friend is not taking you seriously and hangs out with you because her other friends are out. Or she's having a problem. This is very serious if you talked to her. And I don't mean to hurt your feelings but it also might be because you're not always fun to hang out with.
The most final thing might be because she wants to be one of the cool kids but you want to have the same kind of relationship.
I apologize, but I am very limited of suggestions to do. Good luck with your friendship. And if you're a christian, you can pray for her.
2007-01-13 16:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Steve C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's ur bestfrnd she cant betray u,, eithr say her ur best frnd or say she is nt ur types,, its ok if no1 of ur age in ur locality,, self-respect is a mus' n u shld nvr give soooo much interst 2 sum1,, its 1sided frndship,, bettr be open talk 2 her abt all tis' tht u feel,, bein frnd ask 4 d reasons bt if she is really ur frnd she'll tell u on her own,, lets c,, thre r many reasons like she may really be busy or sum1 else around,, jus' check it out b4 reachin 2 any kinda conclusion,, be courageous enough n discuss wid her politely,, tell her wht u feel,, best of luck,,
2007-01-13 16:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by princess is here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the exact thing happened to me... i had this best friend n we were inseperable...then i noticed that on the bus she would hang out wit her 8th grade friends since she was one year older than me...i just said...o 4get it she just needs some time wit her friends...well this started to be a daily routine...then one day i started to get picked up by my mom cuz i made the cheer squad and she thought that she didnt want to be friends...then she started to call me ALL the time...now since shes in the high school... she asks some of her friends to ask me things since i never answer her calls...i just moved on..since she doesnt care i dont care nymore!!!
2007-01-13 16:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do understand how you feel, I've been dealing about the samething with my own bestfriend. So I had to tell him my feeling, and move on with my life. So adviced do the same thing. Good luck.
2007-01-13 23:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jo-Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say she sounds like a user if i was you dont have her as a friend and true friends dont treat you like that fid friends that like you for your self and want to spend time with you
2007-01-13 15:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call her best friend; but does she feel the same? Wake up and smell the rose, sweetie. Friends don't use friends; friends will cry and will laugh with you, not at you.
Find yourself another best friend. Hug.
2007-01-13 15:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on as tough as it may be. some friendships are worth it and until she shows as much interest in keeping the friendship as you do, find other friends.
2007-01-13 15:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well delete her because she is making you uncomfortable. She sounds like she only cares about her emotions.
2007-01-13 15:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋