well theres this guy and he likes me but i dont like him like that.he gets mad when he comes sit wit me and my friends and i dont pay attention 2 him or if we see this fine guy walk by and we start saying,"ooooh he sexy "he starts making comments.he doesnt like it when i talk to derion or c.j. because he nos that they like me.he acts like my boyfriend.so wat should i do to get him to back off?
2007-01-13 15:18:14 · 18 answers · asked by tay-tay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just tell him he isn't your type and that you want to be friends but nothing more and if he doesn't respect that then he obviously doesn't respect you.
2007-01-13 15:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been here b 4. If hes worth still having him as your friend then let him know in a good and nice way that you have never looked at him like that and that u just dont want to ruin the friendship that you have built thus far.Trust me it works! He might be upset in the beginning but if he is a true friend and cares about your feelings then he will appreciate it in the long run!
2007-01-13 23:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by lovehurts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell him 2 back off and stay in his place or dont bother hangin around you at all if hes gonna act like he owns u when you clearly neva had any kind of deep feelings 4 him in the first place.
2007-01-13 23:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rashawn W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask one of your friends to take him off to the side and tell him that you're not interested in him at all.
That's what friends are for. Really. I'm sure they love you and wouldn't mind doing it because he's got to be bothering them too, by what he's doing to YOU.
Ask them. I'm sure they would be glad to help. Also, kiss a guy on the cheek in front of him so he can get a visual reality check.
Good luck. Been there.
2007-01-13 23:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell this guy that you're not interested in him, he sounds like a stalker, if he doesn't leave you alone after that tell a teacher or something. Obviously he likes you, there's no dought in that, unless he's gay and in that case gay guys make really good friends, but it doesn't sound like he's gay so nm. lol
2007-01-13 23:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by darkfallenangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to back off. Be firm. A soft heart will just tell him that you don't mean it. But if you ignore him, roll your eyes etc, it might just work. Also, when he talks to you, interrupt him a lot, saying how cute cj or what's his name is.
2007-01-13 23:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so he like you if he doesn't know you dont like him tell him and if he does hit him or if you dont want to hit him maybe you could try to hook him up with someone so he ubsesses over them not you
2007-01-13 23:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by JRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him dead in the eye in front of your friends or whoever is around & simply say,,buzz off.
2007-01-13 23:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't like him like that but be nice about it than he should back off
2007-01-13 23:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just tell him that your not interested in him and hopefully he will back off because if you don't say anything then he will just keep doing what he is doing.
2007-01-13 23:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by xoohollisteroox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋