2007-01-13 14:51:55 · 26 answers · asked by stillintrouble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What have you done that would warrant divorce? Talk to your wife.
2007-01-13 14:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
COMMUNICATE with your wife what is going on. You didnt go into much detail so I have no idea what all this divorce talk is about. But I do want to say that what goes on in your marriage should STAY BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE. When other people get involved in the marriage it makes it complicated and messy. The BEST THING for you TWO to do TOGETHER is to COMMUNICATE what is going wrong in the marriage and how to fix it. If you cant do that on your own and you need help SEEK a marriage counselor. The three things you need in a marriage is TRUST, HONESTY, and COMMUNICATION. Divorce is ALWAYS the last resort in a marriage.
2007-01-13 15:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you assuming or you know the fact. If your wife listen to her parents and file for divorce,then nothing you can do can make change her mind. But your wife loves you and is willing to stay with you, your in-laws will be very unhappy. So the only way you are going to win is to find out what made them mad to suggest a divorce to your wife, or they are insecure about losing control of her. The only way out is to find out the root cause of it. The only way out if you and wife still together,is to have kids,where they can be grandparents then they will forgive you, so they can be close to the kids,that is irresistible.
2007-01-13 15:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have alot of this inlaw exp. first off if you and your wife is having problems the two of you should talk and try to work things out without involving eithier set of inlaws if you two do get things worked out then she needs to tell her parents she respects their wishes but it is her life in the future the least they know the happier you guys will be
2007-01-13 14:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out why they want her to divorce you first. Make sure you are the best husband you can be. Make sure she is not filling their heads with all the bad things you do and of the good things. Sometimes wives tend to tell their parents only the bad stuff and none of the good.
2007-01-13 14:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by diana b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why? what did you do that is so bad or are they jsut plain nosey! I think, IF and that is IF you really are the victum, you need to be the man and talk to your in laws and tell them they need to bud out, it isn't any of their business. You know what I mean? You need to step up and take control of your marriage and not let someone else ruin it.
Good Luck!
2007-01-13 14:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of the way. Never interfere between a women and her parents (you will always end up the bad guy) at the end of the day they are not going to be able to convince her to do anything she doesn't want to do.
2007-01-13 14:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way to many questions here. Are you still together? Why do they want her to divorce you? Are you having problems? what are you doing to solve them? How do you treat your wife? Do you drink too much? Do yu use drugs? Do yu have children?
From the information you give, find out how your wife feels about what they are doing. If she doesn't want one, then its up to her to tell her family to back off. then deal with your problems.
2007-01-13 14:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by David L 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Show your in-laws that you can take good care of your wife and that you love her. If they still want her to divorce you, then ask your wife if she really loves you enough to ignore your in laws. Talk with her. Besides. If she REALLY does love you, she wouldnt listen to them.
2007-01-13 15:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by raylene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your wife and find out what she wants to do. If she loves you then she will choose to ignore her family. Find out what their reasons are for wanting you away from her as well. Then you can start making things a little better.
2007-01-13 14:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey, if she is not strong enough to stand up to them, then let her go. It is never a good idea to let your family intefere in your marriage! Been there, done that, and stopped it before it ruined my marriage. I finally had to tell my parents to either stay out of my marriage or get out of my life. I am still married and my parents have a lot more respect for me. Good luck.
2007-01-13 14:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Smarty Pants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋