I just had my baby but I don't want it anymore. Too much work. What should I do?
2007-01-13 14:49:23 · 49 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
THAT'S NOT FUNNY!
2007-01-13 14:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Psalm91 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You can drop the baby off at a police station or any emergency room with no questions asked. Please whatever you do don't just leave the baby somewhere that the baby will be uncared for. It takes alot for a parent to know when they cannot care for a baby, if that is your case then it would be very mature of you to give the baby to someone who can properly care for it. It will not be abandoning, only giving your precious child a better life.
if you didn't mean you wanted to give up the baby, but are just having a tough time with this new ladjustment, then talk to someone ie dr. family member, friend for help. It maybe you are suffering from post pardum depression and need some outside help with this new transition. Either way please be responsible with your life and the life of your baby.
2007-01-13 15:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by babe407 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you one thing- I've had my privacy invaded and I have lost years off my life from having babies and my own family. If you do not want it now, please put it up for adoption, and hopefully a wonderful couple takes it and raises it in a family who are thankful for having the gift of creating life with another person. But keep in mind, you may regret it later as you get older- because that baby is a piece of you and, possibly, some wonderful experiences that you could have. It could bring back past memories of you when you were a child, and it could also give you an excuse to act like a child again yourself and have a little fun as you play with the child while he or she grows up!
2007-01-13 15:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG what is wong with you? That is a human life, and you're a man. You need to nurture and care for that human life, that baby is of your own flesh and blood, man. How can u not want your own child? Are you not proud of that bundle of joy you and your wife created together as a result of love to each other? Get off of the computer and go see a mental doctor!!!!
Also, taking care of a new baby is stressful work, but once you get used to it and learn it's language then it shouldn't bother you and you'll learn to love it. Man, like, what is wrong with you? Think about all the work your wife went through to bare that child?
Baby Language:
"Neh" - hunger
"Eh" - discomfort
"Owh" - sleepy
"Ohhh" - lower gas
"Eirh" - needs a burping.
That is a child. Care for it.
2007-01-13 15:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as you are a male, you could not have just had your baby .. the mother did. Where is she? Let her take care of the baby if you will be a bad father by not wanting it. If not, give the baby up for adoption so someone who truly wants a baby can have one.
2007-01-13 14:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?? You should adopt it out! Simple. There are so many ppl out there who would love a baby and you have been given a gift from God and you don't want it because it's too much work!!!!
Adopt your baby out to someone who would really appreciate a beautiful bundle of joy. You clearly don't deserve it.
2007-01-13 15:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u kidding me that is pathetic it is not too much work, look what the chinese had to do with the rail road just take care of the baby and get help if you need it but DON'T put it in the orpanage. you might ruin it's life(How would you do with that)
2007-01-13 14:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
and u didnt think of the consquence i had children at a young age it does get better giving in is not the way to go unless the baby is making u feel like u want to harm it then seek help maybe try family member for help before u resort to drastic measures if not their is child and youth help or other agencies that help please think about it as a child is better off with blood relatives
2007-01-13 14:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by bigbreastedbitch1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that before you engaged in sex. Shame on you. If you truly feel that way about the baby, take it to the local police station, drop it off, and let someone adopt. At least the child will grow up with someone who wants him/her.
2007-01-13 14:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Snoopy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a sad statement but at least you are honest about your feelings and looking for a solution. I would suggest you get a hold of adoption agencies. There are hunderds of couples that would love to have the work that you don't want.
2007-01-13 14:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have got to be kidding me. And if your not.... You need to put the baby in the car and drive to the nearest hospital, police or fire station and take the baby inside. Oh and NEVER have sex again you idiot!
2007-01-13 15:19:27 · answer #11 · answered by Aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋