Im torn between divorcing her and being on my own, and just staying with her while she eats herself into oblivion. I never thought my life would turn out like this. What do I do?
2007-01-13 14:48:11 · 21 answers · asked by emotional_reunions 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
whatever you think God would want
2007-01-13 14:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to leave her because of her weight or is there more going on? If she is eating herself into oblivion, I think it's safe to assume that she is going through some great emotional stress. Has there been alot of problems in your relationship? Have you been calling her fat to her face? If so you need to stop and a) apologize and b) try to figure out what is truly going wrong and try to save your marriage. It is too easy to get a divorce. Why not try to make things work (remember, for better or for worse, right?).
Also, you should not be financially depended on her. It should not come down to staying with a person for financial reasons. Please find a way to provide your OWN finacial stability.
2007-01-13 22:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life would turn out how? With you being a superficial jerk who wants to divorce his wife because she is heavy? Or did you mean with you being dependent on someone else for financial support because you are either too lazy or too dumb to support yourself. Sounds like what you should do is either get over yourself or get a job that allows you to make your own way in the world.
2007-01-13 22:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by thrill88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you married her to be with her for life. Regardless of appearances. If that's whats bothering you, you need to get a life and stop wallowing in vanity. Secondly, you seem to be a rotten leech, more interested in money than love. Get counseling. I'm sure you can always talk to her and perhaps help her self-esteem rather than being a jerk about it. Come on now...grow up some.
2007-01-15 00:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by TragicallyBeautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to divorce her and do all women a favor and never marry since you are very shallow. It would be unkind for you to stay since it sounds like you are very uncompassionate towards her. Reflect on the reasons why she is overeating. If you can't figure it out, do her a favor and leave her alone.
2007-01-13 22:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by FlowersinWinter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things
1. stay with her and suck it up
2. screw other women ( could result in money loss though)
3. striaght up confront her about her insanly weight gain
4. show her affection but show her other women that is fit and compliment them may be she will get the hint
5. screw the weight off 400 cal per ( wait I think thats for males)
2007-01-13 22:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by gopher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock her in a closet for 2 weeks , feed her only toast and tea, see what comes out. Maybe she'll be worth taking a look at.
2007-01-13 22:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by chunkymonkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
her over eating is a sign that your a @sshole.
when she gets rid of you she will loose all that weight get herself a hero and spend happily ever after. you will live in a box on looser lane were you will turn into a bum and live craply ever after the end.
2007-01-13 23:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by happychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, and appreciate that she is supporting you while your being pathetic and not doing anything. Stop being pathetic and feeling sorry for yourself. Get up off your A** and do something with your life.
2007-01-13 22:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by xbilbiex 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOCK THE PIZZA MAN OUT OF THE HOUSE.SPEAK TO THE MANAGER OF THE LOCAL MCDONALD'S.GET CONTROL OF HER DIET.SHE WILL EAT HER WAY THROUGH THE MONEY.
2007-01-13 22:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by melbournewooferblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you just like wasting your points and other peoples time posting question that you have already posted and probably not true.
2007-01-13 22:53:11 · answer #11 · answered by time_wounds_all_heelz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋