Are there any good men out there who could be worthy of marriage?

Question

I feel like trust and honor and truth and faithfulness are just a crock and not one man can live up to those honorable things.

I think no one can be trusted. So far life has proven that to me.
Whenever I trust, that person eventually betrays me. I am so sick of it. Where is trust? Is it a lost concept? Has TV and movies taught everyone that it is ok to be whimps? Has mankind forgotten what it means to be honest and dependable?

Answer 1

Yes, there are plenty of them out there.Don't believe that stupid misandric stereotype that all men are cheating sexist dogs, because there are men who are not like that at all. You need to try harder, and don't hang pick up men who hang around casinos, or bars because that's where the bad ones are.

Answer 2

Yes there are good men out here who are worthy of marriage, and I am one of them. Although I can well understand why you feel the way you do.

It is becoming difficult to trust because of the fact that so many men, and some women, are unfaithful.

I don't think TV or movies have caused bad behavior. I think TV and movies just reflect the kind of society we live in.

I have a friend who was married for seven years to a good man until he cheated on her. They divorced. To this day they are good friends, but she would never re-marry him because of the trust he betrayed.

I think men are more likely to cheat on their mates because society does not punish them for doing so. Also, often times women stay with their cheating husbands, where as most men would not stay with a cheating wife.

We teach our daughters to be ladies, but we don't teach our sons to be gentlemen.

I don't know the answer, but don't give up because there are still some good men out here.

Answer 3

Maybe you are asking too much. My husband and I have had permission to have other lovers for the last 4 years, and yet, neither of us has taken the chance. If we did, it would be ok, but we don't. Since we do not have a "hands off" clause, there is no way that we can lose faith or trust, since we can talk about anything, even our desire for others. I am very lucky, my husband and I are perfect for each other. Someday, I do trust that you will find someone who meets your needs and you will be happy.

Answer 4

Depends upon where you are looking.
You will find that college educated men are the most trustworthy.
Next is men who go to gyms. They have a very positive attitude about life and are very trustworthy.

Bars and laundry mats is where you will find immature BOYS.

Answer 5

Sorry, I got the last worthy man (new husband) almost 2 months ago. ;-) Check out http://www.plentyoffish.com It's 100% FREE, no strings attached. Actually a really kewl site. Good luck!!

Mary

Answer 6

I am honorable and trustworthy.I consider myself to be great marriage material but my problem is finding someone that will do the same for me.To many people take things for granted now days and they just do what ever they want.This is why so many marriages fail.

Answer 7

who is to say you not some bitter and vengefal type of women
women like you tend to have likewise friends
and they CHEAT lie and steal
so there are plenty of guys who ask the very same question
so it's not a question of honrable men
it where oyu are looking and the attitude that you bring
remember water seeks it own level
and in that same vein
you seek what you deserve

Answer 8

Yes the towman JD you can't trust him but he loves women with kids . My girl knows she had problems and he was there for her and her kids . He is married though

Answer 9

There are good men out there.