When I make out with another woman I feel comfortable and enjoy doing it, yet when I'm with a male I get uncomfortable and I don't really get turned on. I've never really been in much of a sexual relationship with a man because I'm just afraid of making out and when I do I don't feel anything. I'd like too, but I just feel more comfortable around women. I don't know why, and this bothers me.
2007-01-13 14:34:00 · 21 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yup, that sounds like you are a lesbian. But only you can know for sure.
2007-01-13 14:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by puhpaul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are. I think you are curious and are felling the beauty and sensual nature G-d granted to women. I believe its a choice.
All I want to say is that (no matter waht most christians say) I love you, G-d still loves you and you are a special person with a great plan to achieve on earth. Most Christians will condemn you if you are an opnly admitted lesbian and this is not right. Anyhow, Bless you.
David T
2007-01-13 15:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've said it does sound like your a lesbian. What bothers you--that you think you're a lesbian or that you're uncomfortable with men? Just be yourself and do what makes you feel comfortable and happy.
2007-01-13 15:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could experiment
go out with a women, try to see if you enjoy the emotional side of the relationship. Yeah if you feel like you connect and are happier and actually feel something. But if its weird and you have second thoughts than no.
2007-01-13 14:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by its all the same to me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but so what I'm epileptic. I'd rather be a lesbian. Do what you feel comfortable with, who cares what other people think.
2007-01-13 14:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by kristen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually to me it sounds like you should stop making out with so many people. Sorry to say that but until you get your priorities in order ( I almost said straight) you are just setting yourself up to be an easy lay.
2007-01-13 14:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like youre going for the next best thing. you may have more homosexual tendencies RIGHT NOW, but it sounds like its because youre putting yourself directly into female on female action and avoiding what you really want.
youre 'uncomfortable' around guys, afraid to make out with them. its okay. thats normal. everyone is bashful around who they like. who they desire.
when people start growing out up, and start truely being interested in sex, they start to experiment with people they feel comfortable with- usually, the same gendered people.
maybe youre shy around guys cause.... you know, you like em. you what them.
but for right now, dont label yourself hetero or homo. dont label yourself as bisexual. dont label yourself at all. just do what you feel you need to do, sexually, with whatever gender you desire, or are ready for. no need to categorize yourself EVER.
be free! dont be bothered! its normal! everything you do, and ever will do is NORMAL! (except for screwing animals, of course. avoid doing that)
2007-01-13 14:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, you are a lesbian.
Try going all the way with a girl to be sure.
Trust after that there will no question in your mind.
2007-01-13 14:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by octopussy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u are wellcome to the lesbian world!!
2007-01-13 15:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur a lesbian to me...nothing wrong with that. why try to like men when u like women better?
2007-01-13 14:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by xXvampireswillneverhurtyouXx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋