me and my husband are having problems....yadayadayada
what do guys want? what can i do to REKINDL the romance
hes not a sport type. we dont have Money to spend and we usually stay home
2007-01-13 14:31:58 · 25 answers · asked by candi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
victoria's secret .........& whipped cream...you come up w / the rest
2007-01-13 14:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something of common interests. Dating can help, even if it's windwo shopping at the mall. Just getting out and doing things together helps.
It sounds like he's just frustrated with things. Maybe having a difficult time with life in general since you say you both do not have a lot of money and spend lots of time at home. He's probably thinking "the grass is greener on the other side" and just thinking there's something better. Not necessarily someone better, just something better in life in general. he may not even be thinking negative thoughts about you at all.
Just let him know you're there with him and show him that things are fine where he's at now. Try and help him through the bad times and in turn he'll help you. Eventually the rough times will pass and you'll be ok.
2007-01-13 14:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by J_Man_La 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would help if you were more specific about what your problems are---however you dont need money to make a picnic lunch and go to a nice park or beach----you dont need money to go for nice walks together----leave little notes for him----call him @ work and tell him how much you love him---learn how your husband feels and experiences love---what is his love language? there are dozen s of inexpensive things u both can do together--and thats the point being together----if you have some deeper issues u may want to seek marital counseling---you obviously love each other or you would not be looking for help---blessings and good luck
2007-01-13 14:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a nice dinner and go to the dollar store and get some candles and go to Walmart or a cheap store and get a nice little nighty outfit and put on some heels. Take it from there....
Try to go to bed together everynight if your schedules will let you, or itleast on the weekends. That should help a little bit.
It doesnt take money to cuddle and watch a movie or whatever is on TV.
Good luck
2007-01-13 14:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by princesandy2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of problems? Romance won't solve everything. If your problems are in the bedroom, sweety, you don't need money. Surprise him.. do something sexy that you have never done before. Get him in bed, then let him take charge. Talk to him in a way that will drive him crazy. Do things to him that you have never done before. Try being submissive.. if that isn't going anywhere, be dominant.
Good luck
2007-01-13 14:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by David L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Candles at dinner - even with meatloaf and a cheap bottle of wine. Spend time together playing cards, putting a puzzle together. Romance isn't about sex, it is about wanting to be together. It's about the call at lunch, the kiss hello and good-bye, the single flower, or just a note in the lunchbox to say "I love you".
2007-01-13 14:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is definately a way to get attention from a man. And spice it up with a new spark every session; add some new kinky twist, even if it sounds grotesque, he might like it and come around to appreciating you again. Have fun... but like one dude said... don't talk or have conversations with him, he'll lose interest and either ignore you and go for the gold, or he'll try to respect what you're saying but might go limp and not want sex for a while. Girls need to learn how to let the man get what he sexually wants, if you want something during intercourse, talk dirty or ask for it in a nasty tone like... "oh yeah.... f*@& me, stick it in my (place you want it). Get rough girl...
2007-01-13 14:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by mopar-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you could care less for it, take interest in his interests. Do things with him, spend time together. Talk with him, show him that your interested in him, also compliment him, tell him that you appriciate him and what you appriciate about him. Some people might think it's building up his ego, but it lets him know that you love and appriciate him. As a guy we want to know that we are appriciated for what we do.
2007-01-13 14:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman, not a guy. Be nice to him, do things for him w/o expecting things back, tell him you appreciate what he does, criticize nothing, do what he wants within limits, smile, and yes, have sex and make it interesting. Make him know you want to do it and leave him begging for more. Good luck
2007-01-13 14:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um the guy doen there is retarded. What u should do is to make him a nice dinner and then watch a movie, then go ahead and do what the dude says down there.
2007-01-13 14:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by TyE_DyE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most of the time, would most likely be sex...But in your case, maybe some sharing time, and try to know what he likes and watches on television...Basically have similar interests as he.
2007-01-13 14:36:15 · answer #11 · answered by Silverstang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋