Why do i feel like i have to please these guys?
they make fun of me call me names behind my back in the gym they only call me when they want to go out drinking i hate it why do people allways call me to go out drinking but wont call me to do nothing else
i feel so lonely how ddo u cure a lonely heart like mine
sorry i know wrong section
2007-01-13 14:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you feel like pleasing the guys because you have no self esteem nor any sort of identity, you feel afraid to go it alone, hence you want to fit in with a group that in reality you probaly really don't like, so why do you try a to make a square peg fit in a round hole? that's just stupid, be yourself ( what ever that is ) and you evetually find those who can be your friends and accept you for who you are.. don't ry to be something your not.
2007-01-13 14:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby where you can keep your mind busy, taken some kind of lesson or get therapy where you can learn to deal with relationship. Do keep your self busy by reading, socializing where you don't have to worry about being lonely. Get a pet that way people will approach you to talk. Or just find something that keeps you busy.
2007-01-13 22:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, if you still join with them if they call you out for a drink, they may think that your only for a happy time,not for a difficult time, if they really your friend, they will call you through bad times and good times, for me their're not you true friend, find a really true friend, even you're only 3 or 4 only. that if you have a problem you can lean on them. it is nice to have atrue friend. or let me say change you personality when it comes to them. let them see that you not only a friend to call for a drink buy also a friend for something else. try them to respect you. why don't you try if they call to go out or nigth out, try to aluby that you have some important do so that you can go out with them right now. it's just simple.
2007-01-13 22:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by iima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill be ya friend Deen...IM me anything yoo aircanada1123@yahoo.ca
Those guys wont make fun of ya anymore.! That is a promise from Shawn Milla!!
2007-01-13 22:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn Miller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new place to make friends.
2007-01-13 22:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself first and they won't ask you to have a drink they ask u for dinner next time
2007-01-13 22:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by darkangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go with these guys
2007-01-13 22:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋