okay, my best friend in the whole world told me something that i didnt like but then she said she was telling me because she cares about me and she was being honest and i kinda over reacted so now we r not talking wat should i do??
2007-01-13 14:23:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her. This can't be resolved if you don't talk about it. Let her know that you think you overreacted and try and explain to her why. You also need to decide if what she has told you is so bad that you can't manage to be friends anymore. If it's not that bad, apologise for your reaction and have a heart to heart. All friendships have there ups and downs and we don't always like what our Friends do.
Good Luck!
2007-01-13 14:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by milljanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's for your own good, like you're being too bossy in school or something like that; then you should thank her for being honest. Your best friend cares about you and want you to change for the better if that's the case. I'm sure your best friend wouldn't tell you something you didn't like for no reason at all or to piss you off.
2007-01-13 22:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter as to how you feel. Even if you don't send it to her, it'll make you feel better.
Wait a few days and then give her a call, saying you want to talk to her. If you really care about each other, you'll thank her for being honest and explain that you don't want your friendship to be ruined over some silly little argument.
2007-01-13 22:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be over it in like 2 days, or the next time some boy looks at you and you have to tell somebody. Be thankful she is being honest with you and not just telling you what you want to hear.
2007-01-13 22:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did she tell you? was it something you needed to hear? Was it of any help to you? Do you think she meant it as help? If you can say yes to any of these, you had better apologize and admit you were wrong. Or else you may lose a friend, and no-one will want to help you again if that is how you react.
2007-01-13 22:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are truly best friends, then it will blow over in time. If you think you over reacted then you probably did -- My suggestion is to give the friendship some timeoff to let it cool off, but I think it will blow over and you guys are going to talk again and back to be best friends.
2007-01-13 22:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you say you are sorry for overreacting. But explain to them why you did overreact and you do understand that she cares for you. It is hard to find a best friend. I hope you can work it out.
2007-01-13 22:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by ajh330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that what she said was bothering you. Dont let something your BEST friend said destroy your friendship. You should definitely talk to her about it tho. its important you fix this and not lose a friend.
2007-01-13 22:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by its all the same to me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to her sincerley. Tell her you know why she told you that and that you should of reacted differently. Let her know u care about her too! =] i hope i helped!
2007-01-13 22:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a misunderstanding between you too.
and it seems you are regretting your overreaction.
but what were you supposed to do?
forget about regrets!
it really doesn't sound like your friend is mad at you in any way, and it doesn't sound like you are mad at her either!
so try texting her saying something like "look i'm really sorry i overreacted that way when you told me that, and i mean it."
when i apologized like that to my friend she replied saying, "aww its okay!! hey wanna do something on friday?"
lol its actually very simple as it sounds!
and its even easier for you because i don't think your friend is mad at you!
good luck!!<333
2007-01-13 22:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by lala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋