I have had this happen tome and I hae had othersstae the same things. How do you handle Bi@cthy co-workers who lie about your work performance, Who gossip about you, who lie and backstab you even when you ARE doing your work and going above and beyond,even when you do nothing to warrantand/or asked for bad treatment? The co-workers exclude you on purpose and don't invlove you e.g sigining car, or birthday parties either, what are good ways to handle bein mistreated?
2007-01-13 13:58:00 · 9 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
That's the harsh reality of people in a lot of work places my dear. The best advise that I can give is TAKE THE HIGH ROAD. If you believe in prayer, try praying for them. That has always worked best for me. Don't let a smaller person steel the best part of you.
2007-01-13 14:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Del C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want to the contact your HR rep. and discover out what the coverage is. Then if it says no (which i doubt, its usualy a no to bold ur manager or the guy you document to) relationship then you actual won't be able to until eventually you both save it a secret. notwithstanding if its okay to date a co-worker then do not even pay interest to what they say!.... That cant be proper, there is should be a coverage. So if she is in fee of HR if this replaced into adverse to the coverage she ought to have instructed you to and ought to assert that is the reason you shold end relationship co-workers or you'd be fired. If she has not stated those then you actual are high-quality and do not take care of what they say....
2016-11-23 16:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people tend to behave like this towards someone who reacts badly to this kind of treatment. Some people get the feeling of power when they can intimidate another person. This is, in fact, very immature behavior, and indicates that these people are very insecure. I think the best way to handle this situation is to continue doing your work to the best of your ability, and try not to react to their treatment. If you can make just one friend where you work, it will really help you.
2007-01-13 14:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!
After reading your profile, I'm surprised you ask this.
Love never fails? (1 Corinthians 13:8)
"About me: I am a christian and my mission is to love, encourage and share joy to those around me"
Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed.
Do not expect people to conform to your ideas or to act the way you decide is best for them.
Allow them to simply be.
Let yourself be open and life will be easier. A spoon of salt in a glass makes the water undrinkable. A spoon of salt in a lake is unnoticed.
Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a great tree in the midst of them.
Spiritual life should contain a great deal of common sense.
♥
2007-01-13 14:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you are a christian, I would pray to God and ask for his assistance at work--that you may find peace on the job with your co workers and/or a new job.
pray.
2007-01-13 14:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-13 14:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by SEO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST BY IGNORING THEM, DON'T SINK DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL , JUST KEEP DOING YOUR WORK LIKE THEY ARE NOT THERE. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-13 14:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit working with your spouse.
2007-01-13 14:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by madmilker 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would find another job then quit so they cud feel stupid..i would also learn how to spell
2007-01-13 14:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by brandon 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋