so i go to this club right, and everytime a girl comes up to me to ask me if i want to dance i say yes. so we go on the dance floor and hip hop is playing and she starts bumping me with her butt. I dont know what to do so i stand straight and i just start hopping in the air. I figure its hip HOP so why dont i HOP? she looks at me weird and walks away. what do i do?
2007-01-13 13:38:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Do yourself a favor. Learn to dance like this...
Go buy or rent the movie "Hitch" staring Will Smith.
In the movie, Smith's character teaches one of his clients a simple dance. It is a very attractive dance for men. It is simple and easy to copy. It is also a very appropriate dance for all situations like nightclubs, weddings, or parties.
Practice in front of a mirror until you feel very comfortable with the dance. Do not tense up when you are at the club. Just relax and enjoy the music when you dance. You will impress girls when you don't try to impress them.
Girls are not impressed by complicated dance moves. They just want a nice guy to dance with. If she starts bumping you, just continue to dance. Who said you have to do anything?
She is flirting. Just smile at her and dance.
When you are done dancing, always walk her back to her table. Be sure to thank her for dancing with you. Ask her if you can dance again later. It shows interest but does not put her under pressure. Do not bug her or ask her on a date right away. Do not ask for her phone number. Relax and have faith. Smile and be quiet.
She will find you later and give you her number.
NOW GO GET THE MOVIE!
DON'T WAIT UNTIL TOMORROW!
DO IT NOW!
The most beautiful girl in the world is waiting for you.
♥
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2007-01-13 13:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Blow off that first answer and use your hips more. (You didn't take into account that the hip comes before hop, you really don't hop when you dance) Just keep your moves under control and don't get too agressive with her. The moves should flow and feel natural. Find some music like that in the clubs and dance in front of a mirror. If it doesn't look like anything you've seen in the clubs...don't do it anymore. If anything, have fun. You will suck if you can't have fun with it.
2007-01-13 21:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... I don't know much about the new dances.. but for fun I will take a big guess and wait and see what ever one else tells you... If she starts bumping you with her butt.. I guess you do the same.. she bumps you and you return the bump...
How things have changed, you never got a young lady to bump any man's behind years back..
Well just try and see how it goes.. Good luck..
2007-01-13 21:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Club dancing is not dancing. It's sex with your clothes on. Just think of that the next time you decide to try and "dance."
2007-01-13 21:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by changafregada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a girl you trust. PAY her to teach you the basics of how to dance. NOW.
2007-01-13 21:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
surely your at the clubs with your mates cant they teach you or watch others and practice at home in front of the mirror hope this helps
2007-01-14 07:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by smirdy_smird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can take dancing lesson or i think it doesn't matter if you know how to dance it's not the end of the world!
2007-01-13 21:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by marinad m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...if you're trying to pick up girls and you can't dance...don't go to clubs...go to like, a coffee shop or something...Der.
2007-01-13 21:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by booda2009 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can just watch them dance before long you will be dancing better then them practice at home also it dosen't take long you'll see good luck.
2007-01-14 08:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing.
2007-01-13 21:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋