i know im suppost to make my life better and change things that harm me and are ruining my life like sex and drugs but i can't because they make me happy i need someone to say something really life changing for me to quit my bad habits but i just can't seem to find a good reason to stop.
2007-01-13 13:36:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Change the location where you are living right now. Go to some other state, this will definitely help you in reviving your life..
2007-01-13 13:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by DTS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 01:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need self discipline! and positive outlook in life! The start is difficult but when you will get used to it, it will be easy to change your bad habbits to good ones. Just think where are those bad things would lead you to? Simply to nothing! I will tell how how to find a good reason to stop.... Read the Quran! It will answer all your queries in life! and witness a big change in you! Good Luck and may you be guided to the straight path!
2007-01-13 13:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by rabee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're highly self-disciplined, you will not succeed. Oftentimes, even those who change through self-discipline find that the change is short-lived. When bad times come, they revert to their old habits. You need to realize that you can't change you. Only God can do that - and make the change permanent. You need Jesus.
Religion won't change you because, regardless of the faith system, religion is just a bunch of rules, regulations, rites, and rituals that man has created to try to make himself acceptable to a God he doesn't even know.
Jesus is the way to the God you can know. And when you place your faith in Jesus, he sends his Spirit to live in (or with) you. When you submit to the control of his Spirit, you will see wonderful changes in your life.
You say, "But so many Christians are hypocrites." True. But that's because, even though they have the Spirit of Jesus, they don't submit to his control. They persue their faith like a religion, not like the relationship it's supposed to be. Only Jesus can live the Christian life. Many Christians haven't figured that out yet.
How do you submit to the Spirit's control? Pray. Admit your weakness and failures. Ask Him to take control of your life and change you. You, and everyone who knows you, will be absolutely amazed.
2007-01-13 14:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Suzy Q. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to get some coping skills. Find a healthy habit to replace the bad ones like working out or finding a hobby. Good luck!
2007-01-13 13:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Militant Agnostic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN ORDER TO QUIT DRUGS YOU ARE GOING TO REALLY WANT TO. AND DOING DRUGS TO MAKE YOU HAPPY, IS NOT REALLY DOING THAT. ALL ITS DOING IS EATING AWAY AT YOU. ITS KILLING YOU. YOU HAVE SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR. I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE ON DRUGS, THAT ARE A WASTE. THEY DON'T WANT TO DO NOTHING, AND I KNEW A FEW OF THEM THAT DIED OF FROM IT.. STOP WHILE YOU CAN. GO TO REHAB AND GET THE HELP IF YOU CAN'T DO IT YOUR SELF. PRAY. I USE TO DO IT AND GOT TIRED OF IT. I HAVE A BETTER LIFE AND MORE MONEY. GOOD LUCK YOU CAN DO IT. PUT YOUR MIND TO IT. YOUR LIFE IS WORTH EVERY THING IN THIS WORLD. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-13 13:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people don't change, the only way I can tell you that'll work is
you have to go out of your house, no money, no cars, just be homeless like, go to the worst part of town, and say to yourself, if I don't get my 5417 toghter this is where i'll end up, in the street, pennyless, all alone, I actually sleep in the street as a experiement, and I am better for it
2007-01-13 13:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by MiKe Drazen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats one thing i would never do, is take advise from a stranger.
All i have to say is only u can change urself. when im down and stuff i just Pray pray and pray. thats what i do when i run into a crisis. but yeah thats juss me.
2007-01-13 13:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if DEATH isn't a good enough reason for you to stop then nothing will be.
2007-01-13 13:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by silverblack12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do want to change yourself, you are perfect the way you are!
2007-01-13 13:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ten 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋