im a white woman and the mother of his children for 9 years know and he always told me he never belived in interrashel dateing and know that we live in low income houseing and more blac woman then ther is black woman he start to say he like black woman what should i do im 22 years old im lost and i dont wana lose him to anyone . lost
2007-01-13 13:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by momaredfernof3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think Go Go Ressa nailed it with this one. It's not a race issue at all for you, only for him. He's telling you he'll cheat on you with ANY race, now that he has more black women around him. Either way... it's still cheating and THAT is the issue. If he cheats on you, with any woman, it's still wrong and you should get rid of him. No matter what your financial situation, get out of there. This guy is not really worth keeping.
2007-01-13 13:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you don't want to lose him to a black woman. So if you lived in a place where it was all white women, would you be concern? It's good that he changed his views on his opinion about who people should like. I hate that you are going Thur this and I hate to tell you... He won't be faithful no matter what the color or race is. If he's got cheating in his heart, If she's green in color and purple streaks in her hair, really don't matter if he stay in the middle of the wilderness, he will cheat. Don't think this is ''a black thing'' it's a ''unfaithful'' thing.
2007-01-13 13:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yesterday you wanted to marry your girlfriend, today a Mother for 9 years, at the age of 22. Tomorrow you should seriously think about going to Church and returning to school to further your education, as you obviously have not learned near enough! God bless and good luck!
2007-01-13 13:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he say he like black women now, doesn't mean he is going to run out and jump in bed with another woman. He could just becoming aware that all women (no matter what race) have something good about them.
2007-01-13 13:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats up wit u bringin up the color? So if he was diggin some white chick it would be more okay?....ANywaYs there is always gonna b someone else he'll be checkin out and it will be in all kinds of races.
2007-01-13 13:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by ♦Bl!nd PoeT♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old were u when u got married?? Or are u just bored babe??
2007-01-13 13:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋