my husband is in jail on abuse.He was put in a program and to go back and finish jail.Has mental problems.Well I have a restraint order.Im in the protection witness program.He was not able to get out.But his family went before the judge to drive him to the program.His family started to hassle me for his things.The witness program told me it was third party harresment,I informed them of that,Then on the 4th of this month he got out somehow and cleaned out our joint account.Leaving me and two boys with nothing.The police said ther was nothing wrong becouse he was on the account.But witness said it was harresment.They are still trying to find out how he was able to leave on a day pass.I was to be notified when he was out at all becouse of his mental state.need to file divorce papers and had my ssi changed intomy own account.How can he get away with this.I live in a small town of pioneer calif.cant aford a attorney.So what do I do to take care of this.He goes back to court on the 25 of jan
2007-01-13 12:52:16 · 9 answers · asked by cat eyes 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
If you left him on the account then there's nothing the police can do. By leaving him on there, you gave him legal control/ownership of the money on the account. Why wouldn't you remove him when this happened? Doesn't make any sense.\
Add to the fact that if you where in witness protection, they wouldn't have let you have an account where both have access, and the fact that the family shouldn't have been able to find you, and you have a really fishy story.
Regardless of the witness protection thing, you gave him legal ownership and control of the money in the account by keeping him on it. Sorry for you, but it doesn't take a great amount of power to figure out if you leave him on an account that he'll access it once out.
2007-01-13 13:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by caffeyw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is alot to take in.....First there are shelters/programs that will help you get back on your feet especially since you have childrn. You r in the witness protection program??? r u in the mafia or something?? If you are in protective custody then there are social workers who will handle your divorce etc...that is your fault that you did not protect your assets, forget about that...Keep taking steps forward, don't look back.
And DON'T be a wimpering, helpless victim...people have SO MUCH ADVICE when they r not walking your path...forget them!! Ask them for monetary help and see how much their comments are really worth then!! Get a job, explain the situation to your new employer and build your life again...not easy but MANY have done it before with LESS than you!!
And be so careful of the next relationship!! We have a tendency to choose the same type of man wrapped up in a different package!
2007-01-13 13:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with a restraining, or protective order, he can't come with in however many feet of you, and whomever is listed on the order.
About the account situation. Why would you leave you money in a joint account with him. While it may not be morally right, since his name was on the account, he would take whatever money was in there.
You don't need a lawyer to get a divorce, they actually have kits for do it yourself divorces. If you do not have children or a lot of assets, then this is the way to go.
2007-01-13 13:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can show the money was from your wages and none of it was his, you can put it on the divorce complaint, however, he will probably not agree to the divorce; you'll have to get a court decision. Most courts do have divorce forms if you can't afford an attorney, ask the clerk of court. Check the self help web sites.
2007-01-13 17:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by alaskasourdoughman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you gained't bypass to detention midsection. you're not any further breaking the regulation (even with the actual incontrovertible truth that some people will say you're breaking God's regulation aka commandment). the in trouble-free words criminal ramification i will imagine of is that once a woman sued her husband's lover for "ailenation of love" and gained a million dollar in tremendous condition. It grow to be on Oprah, or some communicate teach. i don't believe of it truly is in all probability (why would the spouse sue you and under no circumstances the husband???). i don't believe of the female who gained the in tremendous condition truly ever gathered or meant to. i imagine she sued over important. yet...you're operating the chance of having an STD because if he's dishonest on his spouse, he's likely dishonest on you (or will likely in the destiny). also,you recognize he's a cheater. men do not replace. Why do not you locate a astounding, unmarried guy obtainable? i recognize you probably did not ask for my opinion, and that i'm no longer judging you yet my emotions about men who cheat are: once a cheater, always a cheater! yet no, you gained't bypass to detention midsection.
2016-10-31 01:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was SSI money for a child that he took, report him to your caseworker. That money doesn't belong to you or him; you are trustees of that money and must spend it on the welfare of the child (same is true if it was your SSI). Show up in court on the 25th and make a victim's statement. Get help from victim's advocacy groups.
2007-01-13 13:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by normobrian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I would go to the local bar association. They can help you out with your situation and direct you to the best lawyer for you. Also, look for legal aid. They usually go by your income status and sometimes work out a payment plan for you. Good luck with everything!!!
2007-01-13 13:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had 2 children with this man and now you're claiming he is mentally ill?
Forget the chump change you had in the bank, get a divorce and move on with your life.
2007-01-13 13:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by DB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your question is complete non-senses.
2007-01-13 13:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋