We have been together for almost 6 years and have done just about everything you can imagine to do sexually including swapping with other couples and threesomes and such.We have kind of calmed down but still have a wonderful sex life and love each other very much..We have sex on the average of sometimes twice a week other times three times a week and then go two weeks without so much as barely touching each other and im not talking about in a sexual way .How often is the norm for people that have been together this long and what else can we do to spice up our sex lives ..I mean we have done just about everything and anything but still seems there could be something else to be exciting.. and not that we are bored its just we are running out of things to try ..We don't do the swapping thing anymore because we have decided that maybe its not the thing to do ,and I think about it ever so often but don't mention it.But wonder if this is still on her mind and she is wishing again for that?
2007-01-13 12:01:54 · 8 answers · asked by Im C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love should never being boring it is cherishing one anothers body now sex is totally different. not that making love shouldnt be fun but more a a bonding. I think daily at least. A couple of times but really if your busy in life every other day tops. Or life gets misrable. I dont know ive been w/ out for 9 mths. since i separated mainly causes i wanted it every day got mad when i didnt thinking something was wrong.
2007-01-13 12:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by dork 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 6 1/2 years and been with my husband for 9 years and we still have sex if not everyday but everyother day and we have 2 kids but our friends are only married 5 years and her husband was complaining about not having sex at all so everybody is different some like it more than others and the whole swapping thing is good that youve stopped trust me it could cause alot of problems in the future
2007-01-13 20:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by memv789 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's counting, if it feels good do it. The most cause of partners cheating on each other is that they are looking for something they are not getting at home. So, go for it, you will never get that chance back if you don't. After six years, you should still be at each other, just be careful in public, most restaurant take a dim view of their guests doing the nasty on the table.
2007-01-13 20:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by P.A.M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 6 years my wife was having sex every day sometimes twice in a day . i was getting some 2 times a week
2007-01-14 14:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like what you two do is normal.Just thinking about my husband with another woman makes me sick but to watch him with someone else I would cut off his fu(king dick.You people don't even no just how sick and perverted you are.
2007-01-13 20:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her! I am in the same way, so can't help. I enjoy sobering to help me get Thur the days!!
2007-01-13 20:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you get it more than most of us there is only one thing i can think of it is be with a another man will she watches
2007-01-13 20:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by not me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...I thought I had a great marriage...
it sucked compared to yours...lol
now that I'm single...what's your address ? lol
2007-01-13 20:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋