My husband was texting my good friend and telling her not to tell me?

Question

My husband and our friends text jokes to each other all the time and its no problem for me at all but the other day he text a good friend a sex joke and told her not to tell me that they were texting each other, for some wierd reason my friend told me about the story and she told me that someone out of our friends text her a joke and told her not to tell his wife, she text him back well if you dont want me to tell her then we cant text each other cause I cant do that to her and he called her right away and told her that is was not like that and that he just didnt want me to know(why I dont know cause I really dont care cause I trust him and I dont really care who he texts I'm not like that) so then I found out a couple days later that the story she was telling was about MY husband and I had a cow!! Im so uppset we are in a HUGE fight and I wanna know why he told her not to tell me what was his point in all of this especially if he know that I dont care.Why did he tell her not to tellme

Answer 1

because his intentions may be something other that what it is. He may secretly, and don't even realize it. That he has the hots for this woman; and it feels wrong. But, he enjoying talking w/her & don't want u to know because some of those jokes may be dirty & he's getting a kick out of it.
And, she may also feel that; he is feeling her (meaning, she kind of know that he like's her-but they both know its wrong; so they tend to keep playing w/fire. until one day it kind of comes down to a dare (type situation w/out using those words "I dare u"..but (or a) what if situation(without being said)/its hard to explain to u what I'm trying to say...

It's in its early stages; I know u said u don't care but this is the time to care. I've seen it happen & it can be very messy.
I'm not saying u should stop it, because it would happen even more if u did. And, for her to go around saying u were having a cow about it. show's she's not very honest and she may have been doing some naughty talking w/him; and she figured that u would be upset or aggiatated/because she probably would be if she was in that situation. so she's not a really good friend she fabricated a situation that didnt exist....think about it.

Answer 2

A huge fight may not be necessary, but my trust with him will decrease. He may have felt or thought more about the text sessions they had between the two of them than she did. Be wary of the man. Afterall, he is human.

Answer 3

I agree with spotlight. He may have a hidden motive. ---PUNK. I so sick of men right now. I want to puke!!!