okay his mom and stepdadcare breaking up and i need help because hes emotional and ive never been in this situation with a guy before i know talking to him helps but is it supposed to hurt this bad.Every time i talk to him and hear him hes upset and i constantly worry abot him and i cry myself asleep over it @dvice
2007-01-13 11:55:28 · 5 answers · asked by Lovey dovey cuddlekins 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok, this is difficult bcuz I don't know the situation. But my parents are divorced. I suggest that he go to a counselor, first off. Second, tell him to ask his parents why they got divorced. Telling him that it's not his fault is not going to give him the closure that he needs. But in case they don't tell him, do remind him that he had nothing to do with their divorce. The only thing that will give him closure is the answer to that question. If you somehow find out why his parents are getting divorced do tell him. Tell him to remember that they are the responsible parties in this situation.
What the two of you need to remember is that his parents are the responsible ones here and you guys cannot do anything to change the situation itself. All you can do for him is be there to support him and to listen and talk to him. This is one of those times in a persons life when they realize that their parents may or may not always be there for them, even though they are alive. It is sad, but a fact of life for many of us.
IMPORTANT: encourage him to keep in contact with both his mom and stepdad. It is obvious that he cares deeply about both of his parents.
I really hope this helps ;-)
2007-01-13 12:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it would be hard on him and for you to. i would never like to be a child with parents going though a break up.. just be there for himjust let him know its not his fault for there break up. i have not been through this myself but i have a old mate who did. some days he would get upset and angry some days was better days. all you can do is be strong for both you and him and hopefully in time things will get better sorry i cant help you anymore stay strong and good luck to both of you...
2007-01-13 12:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell William to stay in his room and listen to some music or play video games,call him and talk to him tell him how much you care for him and to stay away from the drama in the other room,let his parents handle it themselves. I'm sure they will do whats best for the kids.
2007-01-21 09:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When life doesn't go the way you want, accept it, and let go of it.
Instead of dwelling on the subject, go for some exercise, like going to gym and do any sweating exercise with him, both of you will feel better after a work-out.
2007-01-21 02:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be strong for him. He might try to push you away a little, but just continue to let him know that you are there for him no matter what!
2007-01-13 18:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by pngstar06@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋