i know from health class the it hurts down there for boys, anyways he was so mean he made fun of me so i defended myself, now he wants to get me back i've heard i dont know what to do, i dont want to hit him again b/c my friend who spyed on their secret club told me that i cud get in trouble, but my sister told me girls are allowed to hit boys down there if they r defending themeselves, so what shud i do, shud i teach him a good lesson or just tell my teacher, i'm kinda scraed, trust me i may be young, BUT i know what rape is, i dont want that 2 happen to me
2007-01-13 11:37:26 · 26 answers · asked by aces_r2_faces_as_bases_r2_cases 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just wait till he slaps your titz.
2007-01-13 11:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
For one yes you can hit a guy down there to defend your physical body from attack, not to defend yourself from words you have to under sand the rules of fighting between men and women which is ( whoever hits the other first loses) He may have made fun of you but when you hit him you lost the argument. Now if you want to make it right apologize to him in a public place in front of a lot of people. When he sees that you are really sorry for hurting him his anger toward you will be eased. It really hurts to get hit down there girl. Just remember public place, not in private where he could try to hurt you like you hurt him.
2007-01-13 11:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by sphericaluniverse 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hitting someone and hurting them bad is not defending yourself.
Idiots like that should just be ignored. Don't allow this to escalate, and become more violent. You should apologize,
and try to make peace. I don't know why your sister says you
were defending yourself, if this boy didn't lay a hand on you.
There's enough crazy people out there as it is, no need for
provocation. Apologize and be done with it!!
2007-01-13 12:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by jon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suggest confessing what you did to your teacher. Tell her you are willing to take the consequences for your actions but that you are scared and want help protecting yourself from this guy.
I don't think kicking him was a good idea. Not only did you put yourself in a situation to risk getting in trouble with authority figures and risk retribution from this guy and his friends, but by reacting in ANY way when someone is making fun of you you are showing them that what they are saying bothers you, and it gives them POWER over you! If you want to really show yourself to be a strong, confidant person, ignoring them or laughing in their face at the things they say is the answer, in my opinion. That way you don't put yourself at risk of getting in trouble with authorities, and if the guy gets in a huff about it it just makes him look like a moron to his friends. I know you can't change what you've already done, but maybe this would be something to think about in the future?
I don't think it's right to ever respond to verbal stuff in a physical way..... if you do so it's almost like asking for a physical counter-response. If you don't want to be hurt, don't hurt other people!
2007-01-13 11:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by DevJLang 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt a boy that you've just kicked in the balls is going to be thinking of rape...more revenge....You should never kick a boy in the balls unless your life depended on it, making fun of you isn't violence....sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me, haven't u heard that before........ You can stop someone from having kids by doing that...Don't do anything, say anything, just see what happens and play it cool, hopefully u might have got away with it.
2007-01-13 11:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Heh heh, I did that once to my ex. It drove us both over the edge. That's part of why we broke up. Anyway, don't do it again. Tell him just how retarded he is with as many big words as you can find in a dictionary that mean that. Chances are, if he was enough of a idiot to make fun of you, he'll have no clue what half your speech is and leave you alone. Another idea is just give a good right hooker in the gut and tell him to leave you alone. That mostly works if there's not too many other people around. As for raping, if he can do that, I'll buy a new hat and eat it with a sauce of glue.
2007-01-13 12:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by imaforestspirit 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unless your life is in actual danger, you should NEVER kick a guy in the balls. There are many other ways to get back at a guy besides hurting them like that. Save your kicks for when you really need them.
2007-01-13 11:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
you should tell your teacher. You'll get him in trouble that way. You should have just gone to the teacher when he first bothered you...but thats in the past.Tell them you were defending yourself...even though it was the wrong thing to do. Let them know that you are really scared.
It's the right thing to do... and more mature
2007-01-13 11:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by *Harley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't physically hit people unless they try to hurt you physically. He was just talking, which means you must have anger issues. But you'll learn one day when someone kicks you directly in your clitoris or cracks your jaw completely unjustified. And if you get hit by a man with anger issues, it's gonna hurt.
2007-01-13 11:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your teacher and if he does give you crap again go for the balls.... but be advise it does cause severe pain and you can actually cause some mayjor damage so whatever this guy is doing for u to want to kick him in the balls better be pretty damn bad!
2007-01-13 11:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Poor kid.Y did u do that.He didnt do anthing.He mabye likes u n just can't say it.U should have told an adult before doing anyhting like kicking him in the balls!!!!!!
2007-01-13 12:10:27 · answer #11 · answered by Maria M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋