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a dork?becuse i am in 7th hgrade and i am super smart so i go to a 10th grade math clas.. i am indian and have i longer thatn waist thick black straight hair???i wear eyeliner have a oval shaped face, petal shaped dark b rown eyes... and am not aloowed to wear make-up or fashionish clothes. i am not allowed to wer my hir inany type of stylle execpt 1 or 2 braids. i have a complexion that is just slightly darker than wheatish skin. and am NOT alllowed t wear miniskirts.tight shirts...... or make-up. i like this guy.but am not sure how to know ifi he likes me.or how to make him notice me.? please give me somet ips. also my name is Kundanika:which means golden girl.

2007-01-13 11:20:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

i ami also an ascetic personality. i have no enemimes.... and don' teven hate the person who hates me or acts mean to me. i am ful of energy.and am way morea ctive that an person nknow. ii am self-sacarificing.kindhearted. adn am a super fast atheletic. i learn ndian music, dance and an instrument called the
Veena.

2007-01-13 11:34:15 · update #1

11 answers

Look I think from what I read about you, you do seem (no offense) kind of "dorky", I do think you need to care more about your appearance, but most importantly your self-esteem. You have to believe in yourself and let everybody see who you really are from the inside-stand out, then by feeling really confident about yourself, take a look in fashion, try to find something you'll feel good in. I'm not saying to defy your parents, but try to talk to your parents (most likely a mother), that you are not in India or wherever your from anymore, your in the USA, it's a different culture, there are different ways to dress, etc. well and being smart is nothing to be ashamed of, Hope it helps!

2007-01-13 13:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Princess16 2 · 0 0

you are not a dork, you are just made to follow your nationalities customs/rules for dress and conduct. Just because you are smarter that alot of other people does not make you a dork. It makes you special, and for everyone who thinks differently they are just jealous because they know they will never achieve what you can. Most Indian girls/women like you are of that complexion and are some of the most beautiful in the world. Do not let other plainjane girls or the "in crowd" kids make fun of you. You have been given a gift and you choose to use it. If other kids in this nation would actually use the brains that God has given them, they'd be just as smart. I know this, because I have a son who is in the 6th grade, he is smart and is made fun of also. I also was made fun of growing up because of my math/science/biology super smarts yet i came from a farming backround where everyone kept telling me I was a dumb country bumpkin. I was voted least likely to succeed from my graduating class. Yet I have achieve more than what they ever did. I've got 4 degree's in medicine and pyschology. I hope you put you brain to good use and achieve what you want.

2007-01-13 11:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by jtracer48 4 · 1 0

you're a dork to someone who judges people based on their appearance, but to a kind, honest person who judges people by thier character, you are a goddess. There will always be people in this world that don't like you. You just have to realize that they aren't really important.

I'm in sixth grade, but I am at the same math level as most 11th graders. Although, it's not as tough on me because there are five other sixth graders at the same level, not to mention about 15 seventh graders. Try not to advertise the fact that you're in a higher math class than most people you know; it would make you seem too sure of yourself, even though you obviously aren't.

If you love yourself for who you are, then everyone else will too, Golden Girl (that's a beautiful name). Good luck!

2007-01-13 12:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by techtor765 2 · 0 0

She who flatters herself in front of crowd is a dork.

Reference:
"i am super smart"

Atrocious typing makes my eyes bleed.

Reference:
"and am not aloowed to wear make-up or fashionish clothes . . . wer my hir inany type of stylle"
ETC.

Good gracious.
Don't be so conceitied, learn to type (and learn grammar, perchance), and control your hormones. You're in 7th grade, dear.

And erm, you were also asking if we thought you're a dork. And so there you have it.

2007-01-13 12:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by SarcaSTICITSidaS 2 · 1 0

I wouldn't consider you one. Not just from the things that you have written here. You sound like a pretty, math knowledgeable girl but you haven't said anything about your personality! As for the things that you are not allowed to do~sounds like you have smart, loving parents~be proud of that!!
As for tips with the guy you are interested in, just be yourself! If he likes you, he will let you know~Don't chase him or be overly friendly!!

2007-01-13 11:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Donna J 4 · 0 0

everyone is a dork in middle school. you will learn this in high school.
being smart is cool.
in 10 years you will be successful and happy if you concentrate on kicking *ss in school and going to college.
don't worry about what your friends or enemies think about you.
chances are they will (sorry) forget you by the time they are 25.

2007-01-13 11:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by spoonman 3 · 1 0

I think that you need to accent your best quality, your smarts. Once you feel good about yourself, and show confidence in your differences, then a boy will "see" what you "feel". Work on your self-esteem, that is what is non-superficial.

2007-01-13 11:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it sounds like you dont need any short skirts etc to get noticed, and no there is nothing wrong with being smart.
Im sure in time you will find the right guy for you.

2007-01-13 11:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by welllaners 5 · 0 0

Definitely a dork.

2007-01-13 11:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

do somethin with your hair...my parents are strict too but not like yours... also get some new clothes...other than that be yourself...and dont be afraid to talk to the guy. and im smart too, it isnt your falt you were born like that...

2007-01-13 11:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by MUSiC♫L0VEee`R 2 · 0 0

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