me and my wife have been trying to have a baby for about 3 months and its just not happening.what is wrong?

Answer 1

Relax first, many times the stress of daily life,finances and more can imbalance our bodies which lead to deficiencies. Go to www.beeroyalproducts.com and research Bee Royal Jelly, I guarantee if both of you take it everyday you will be pregnant in a couple of months max.... I was diagnosed by my own doctor with having PCOS and told I could never have a baby, then my mother told me about royal jelly and how it has been used for centuries to make fertile ground in humans , I was skeptical and went to the web site once,twice,three times finally I said what the heck and broke down and bought a jar , and now three children later I swear by the product it was a miracle in my life and now I just try to tell others and help them ..Good Luck

Answer 2

Usually OB/GYNS suggest that you try for 6 months to a year before trying any alternative methods. Sometimes, it can take a woman up to a year to get pregnant. You can try an ovulation tester that will tell you when the most fertile time of the month is, as well as having sex every other day to every other two days to increase the amount of sperm in the ejaculate. If, after 6 months to a year of trying you haven't had any luck, talk to the doc about other optioins such as stimulating medications, etc. And, sometimes the stress of trying so hard to conceive can actually stop the process from happening. Relax... try not to make every session with your wife a "score", and focus on having fun now that you don't have to worry about making sure that your protection works!

Answer 3

Hey well there is nothing wrong... It is normal not to get pregnant right away even if you've had sex during ovulation... It took my husband and I 7 months to get pregnant and we had sex every other day which covered my fertile time.. On average it can take up to a full year and if you don't concieve after a year of trying they say to talk to your doctor but other then that there is nothing wrong some ppl are lucky and get pregnant the first time while others try for months.. I'm trying for my second one and we've been trying since sept of 06 going on 5 months now.. so take a deep breath relax a little bit and don't try to hard just go with it but don't stress about it..

Answer 4

Um that question is a really common one. But it usually takes about 12 months to concieve a child. My husband and I have been trying for 4 years, It just depends on you and your wife, the stress level, and many other factors. Just take your time and relax. It will happen. Oh yeah and you can also try to eat a lot of greens. That has a lot of folic acid in it. And that will help for when you do get pregnant. Good luck. And best wishes.

Answer 5

Usually doctors recommend that you try for a year before you start worrying about there being problems. Remember, there is only a 20-30% chance each cycle that a woman is going to get pregnant. I would suggest, if you are not already doing it, that you do an ovulation calculator and try to have sex more frequently on the days leading up to ovulation. Also, read up on some prenatal books that will help you and her get in the best shape possible to prepare your body to conceive. They let you know which vitamins and foods are most important while you are trying to conceive and other great tips. Good luck to you guys!!

Answer 6

3 months is about 12 weeks. The first 6 weeks she isn't even supposed to have sex for health reasons (risk of infection while he body heals) So while yeah, 2 times in a month and a half isn't much, you also have to realize her hormones are insane from being pregnant and then having the baby, she is probably tired and just worn out. Hire a sitter, plan a nice date night with her, I'll bet you get some.

Answer 7

well, 3 months is a really short time to stop and conclude that something is wrong.

nothing is wrong.

I was once told that couples usually start trying to conceive for their child, within a 2 year window (meaning that it could take up to 2 years to conceive, before concluding that something may be wrong)

It just takes good timing, so stay in tune with your wife's monthly cycle, like writing it down on a calender, and count the days.
she can go see her personal doctor and give her tips on ways to track when she's ovulating.

Answer 8

Are you guys having sex when she is ovulating? Woman can only get pregnant one day a month and if you miss that day that you won't get pregnant. It's best to have sex every other day just to make sure. Also sperm can live in a woman's body for 3-5 days. I used mymonthlycycles.com you should have your wife try that too. If she remembers her past three periods she can put them in there and it'll tell her her cycle length, and when she is ovulating which helps a lot.

Answer 9

Ive read that only 20% of healthy couples can get pregnant each month. Makes you really see that each child is a blessing. Make sure you and your wife try around the time she ovulates. Dont stress. It will happen in time.
Good luck and God bless.

Answer 10

Try seeing a doctor, not because you may be sick, but to get some information.. you may not be doing it at the right "time", if you try every day that is not good sometimes either.. I had a friend that had to stay in bed with her legs up after having sexual relationships to help to get pregnant.. there may be some vitamins or medicines outthere to help too..
don't feel bad! the time will come!
Good Luck!