2007-01-13 11:16:09 · 11 answers · asked by tlc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Aww, so sorry to hear this! I know this must be so hard for you right now but why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. I'm sure you deserve more than that. Unfortunately, you cant force anyone to do something they dont want to do! I know, its not what you wanted to hear but why lie? It will only make things harder on you. Plus, if its meant to be, it will be.
2007-01-13 11:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody who is willing to give up and walk out on a relationship after that period of time is truely fed up with it. I don't mean to be cruel, I'm sure neither of you did anything wrong. It just wasn't right, and you weren't right for each other. It's not easy to do. Just know that you're not alone, and everybody has gone through a hard break up at some point. You'll get through this.
2007-01-13 11:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by AbbeyDLaurence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, sweety. nicely first of all, you should in simple terms communicate with him. Make him hear. i recognize you said that you tried, yet be slightly forceful. do not yell at him, yet make him hear. probable do not ask him first aspect at the same time as he receives living house, because he's understandably drained, yet hit upon a at the same time as at the same time as he's round and also you've got a magnificent lengthy communicate. i visit well known the way he shouldn't have a lot time and skill to spare, regardless of the reality that. he's operating lengthy hours and a couple of jobs, and each person who does which will be emotionally drained. in simple terms enable him recognize that you're there for him, and examine out to be accomodating of him. refer to him about HIM, not almost you. per chance you should get a facet job, as well college? You do sound slightly clingy and needy of him, so per chance in simple terms relax and do not remember on him a lot. per chance connect a health center, or a club, so that you'll make some pals and characteristic something to do and someone to consult and imagine about as well in simple terms him. He has his own existence, so that you are able to have yours too! nicely, with the discern difficulty, call your moms and dads up immediately and tell them you're with him. They should carry close, or perhaps regardless of the reality that they received't approve, you adore him and it is your existence and they could't end that. and also you extra ideal go meet his moms and dads, or they received't take you 2 as a severe couple. And as for the ailment, please, please, PLEASE do not go into that state if this does not workout consultation. it ought to experience like your international got here crashing down, yet there are different fish interior the sea. regardless of occurs, occurs for a reason. God continuously has a higher, extra ideal plan for you. And honey, he DOES love you. He would not coach that he loves you, and he actually would not coach his appreciation for you, yet deep down, recognize that is there. Any guy that remains with the same lady for 5 years is a good guy, and also you 2 deserve one yet another. My suitable needs, and that i desire each thing works out for you. :]
2016-11-23 16:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by lansford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not happy, why would you want to make him stay? If you really love him, let him go find what will make him happy. If you try to keep him, he will only resent you, and you both will end up unhappy. I don't mean to sound cold, but he is ready to move on, and you have a heartbreak thats going to hurt, sorry about that.
2007-01-13 11:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, if he isn't happy with u, be glad he is moving out, not much we can do to convince someone to stay. my ex said he wasn't happy either, found out right after he left that he had a girlfriend and thats why he wasn't happy with me. let him go, we have no control over anyone, know it hurts badly, but time does heal and the hurt does diminish. not your fault it's his. just let him go as we really have no control over any situation.
2007-01-13 12:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why isn't he happy? You need to find that out so you can go from there.
2007-01-13 11:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah, i know it's hard but then espcially when you've been together for how many years.. but then if he wants to move on let him go if he comes back he's for you! maybe you vcan give him space. sometimes it helps people to realize. good luck!
2007-01-13 11:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's over babe move on you need a REAL man anyway holla ill chat with cha some late night
2007-01-13 11:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok barely understood that. just tell him how you feel. try to keep the relationship strong through phone calls, emails, letters etc.
2007-01-13 11:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't happy, you are out of luck. You can't force him to stay.
2007-01-13 11:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋