My best friend is close to being kicked out of school for getting in fights, ignoring teachers, and much more. I'm really worried about her, but I'm not sure she'll talk to me. She won't talk to any of my other friends. What should I do about her?
2007-01-13 11:00:16 · 22 answers · asked by imaforestspirit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to talk to her. Chances are, even if she doesn't show it, she will listen to you. If you two are best friends, then she'll respect your opinion. She might get mad at you, cry, or go do something else. But after talking to her, give her some time to calm down. That will allow her time to think. If she does not listen, then stay away. If she is not willing to have your companionship, then give it to some else. Choose your friends wisely.
2007-01-13 11:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by 'chip! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Hun sounds like your friend is gone off the hook..
If your that worried bout her try talking to her about anything except the trouble she is in I'm sure she is getting enough of a lecture off her parents..talk to her for a while or even text her and then when you think she feels comfortable ask her is there anything bothering her? Or if there is something she wants to talk to you about
Let her know that you are there for her..
I know you might not particularly want to do this but if you have a teacher that you trust do and talk to her/him and express your worries for your friend and ask him/her if they could help you..
Maby theres a teacher who knows your friend is much better on the inside behind all this rage see if that teacher would get your friend to sit and talk with you and the teacher then again you could tell her how you are feeling about the trouble she is in..
Either way Hun something GOOD or BAD is going to come outta dis..
Good Luck..
2007-01-13 11:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by emma_18d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the popularity of your friend isnt your fault. you cant really do anything for her but hope she makes the right descision. if your that worried about her then try and talk to her when she isnt in trouble and is in a calm mood. or write her a letter or something. be honest. tell her that you are worried about her and that even though things cant be the same between you and her like before that you will always be there for her. no matter what. if she doesnt want to then just back away. things change in life and the best way to handle these changes is to get used to them and move on. good luck. be honest.
2007-01-13 11:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every physique needs to be familiar. yet think of relating to the definition of familiar. what's it? Having lots of acquaintances? seems to me you have already got acquaintances which you relish being with and you adore. Why possibility what you have just to slot in with some thing else? I promise you once you get older, those self same human beings you're thinking to be familiar, better than possibly heavily isn't. real acquaintances are stressful to come back by and as you get older you will understand what you have now's what concerns. every physique who mentions you have gotten "rather enormously" and that's while they be conscious you, is to shallow to be a real buddy. And if the guy who's "close" to you feels this manner approximately your different acquaintances, is he rather that sturdy of a chum? Love your self and your friends for who they are and not how they look.
2016-10-19 22:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. You typed you are not sure..so there still is a chance. If you really care about her, you won't let her ignorance get in the way you helping her. I think the best thing to do is to tell her parents because they are the actually authority figure.
2007-01-13 11:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with her as a friend and let her know that you are there for her. Try talking to her and see if you can find out what the problem is, sounds like she does have a BIG problem. Sounds like she has put up a wall to protect herself for some reason. Try to get her to talk to a counselor or see if a counselor can talk to her, maybe if you talk to a counselor and let them know your concerns, they may take the first step. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-13 11:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like that guy who first answered "be yourself" dont even try to fit in with them or be bad. Talk to her or e-mail her just let her know youre worried and wanting to help. If she doesnt need help dont ignore that because she really does. Talk to her because really she still is your friend just tell her that. Maybe shes just going through something bad like in her family or she just wants attention. Hang out with her and hopefully a argument wont come in, let her know and she'll pull through it. She needs to be her true self not "fitting in with others" or attention & she needs you.
Hope things will go well for your guys.
Take Care
2007-01-13 11:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by Thrills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you are in bad company, and you may find yourself in trouble simply for being in her company, when something against the law happens.She may well wind up using you.
If this is a sudden change of behavior, could it be drugs ??
Your question confuses me. This is not what we call a popular girl, but the opposite in the USA._____________JILL
2007-01-13 11:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just stay out of troouble yourself Why wouldnt she talk with you if she is yoour best friend... sometimes people have to hit rock bottom before they start climbing back up
2007-01-13 11:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by browneyedonna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang Thats a hard one. It also doesn't sound very popular to me..but if she wont talk to you try asking your gudiance counselor at your school. Your gudiance counselor can talk to her and show her down the right path. Good luck.
2007-01-13 11:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋