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I grew up with very little confidence and a low self esteem. I had no dad and my mom was an alcoholic and didn't really know how to be a good mom. She came from 12 kids and a very poor family which made it hard for her to know how to be a good parent. She did the best she could and I loved her anyhow. I don't blame anything on my mother, I think we all are responsible for our own selves after a certain age. I was a beautiful, shy and insecure child. I grew up and had to overcome a lot of things in order to get ahead and become the person I wanted to be. I always knew that I was somebody but it was being taught by a female pastor on the Bible and the teachings of Jesus that I realized who I really was. I realized that I was made in His image and I was a joint heir with Jesus, His sister and I was equally loved by our father God. That made such a difference to me. It made me feel like a worthy and loved person. I guess I never knew what that felt like because I had no father and not a lot of affection in my family. When I realized that we are all precious, loved, and special and that God love us all the same and that he forgives us for all our shortcomings and sins that I was able to love myself. That is when I became self confident and able to step out and be strong and confident. We are all His and that gives us certain rights. Just like we would and do give our children., He gives to us. So, we are special, me and you and anyone that believes that we are children of God. That is enough to make you feel good about who you are. He doesn't make junk. so, just read the bible or get into a church or a spiritual teaching group that is based on faith and the teachings of the bible. It will encourage you and make you strong and self confident. I was lucky to be taught by someone so knoweledgable. Make sure the teaching is fact based on the bible and is a confidence building and positive group. Not a push you down and make you feel guilty group...been there done that not for long. You can study yourself. Write down some positive words and look them up in the bible glossary and then look up the passages and study them. Also, write 25 times a day, I am beautiful, smart and worthy of every good thing. This will then become a part of who you are and make you feel great about yourself. Make sure to do it daily and in a month you will be feeling so much better about yourself. It works!!m God bless you. You are beautiful and smart and worthy of all good things from God.
Suze Orman the financial advisor always says write down i have all the money that I will ever need. 25 times. So, it's a good thing to do. Good luck.

2007-01-13 11:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 2 0

You modern-day sufficient indications that i think you opt for some counseling. i'd desire to signify you ignore a number of those concerns and initiate residing, yet i'm uncertain that could grant help to. opposite on your suspicion that others don't experience inferior, merely approximately every physique does to three quantity. maximum do not stay on it. yet there is extremely sturdy indication by how human beings act that merely approximately every physique feels the forms of issues you do. Even familiar human beings have their moments, or one does not see a suicide be conscious between them each from time to time. One has to settle for which you at the instant are not appropriate. One has to settle for you heavily isn't liked by every physique. merely come to are conscious of it purely takes one buddy to make all of the adaptation. Are you a chum to somebody. have you ever made a batch of cookies and left them for somebody you prefer to get to be responsive to greater advantageous with a notice, like I's prefer to be your buddy are you fascinated? issues will take off from there. Be a chum and others will choose you as a chum. look at your self and determine what expertise you have. every physique has a expertise. some draw, some sing, some act or do activities. Then bypass try this expertise with others who've a similar expertise. that provide you a peer team, a place to set down with at lunch ect. you're 24. actual there is someplace on your community the place you could carry out a little provider. Do you attend church? If not evaluate doing so. They continually choose human beings to paintings interior the soup kitchen or the outfits substitute. Volunteer. in case you do you will returned benefit acquaintances and that they'll choose you as a chum. Get out, do not stay abode on the computer. that's the worst nightmare for this era. that's fantastic for a small quantity of time an afternoon, yet rather you're remoted in front of a working laptop or computer. by having out, you're making connections which will grant help to discover your real self-worth. If counseling isn't needed once you attempt a number of those thoughts you would be money forward and acquaintances would be your sounding board as a exchange. sturdy success on a astonishing existence. You deserve it.

2016-10-19 22:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

i do though i'm only a teenager i find i hard to get up every day for school. i do feel insecure about my self i just don't no what to do with myself. or how to make my life better.

2007-01-13 11:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by revolutionofthefuturegeneration 1 · 0 0

I have a low self-esteem.

2007-01-13 10:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0 0

I always do around my time of the month. I feel like I use up too much space and resources and dont contribute enough to the world. I blink uncontrollably, step on cracks, and my counselor says I have OCD. Why do you ask?

2007-01-13 10:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by yay_boxes 4 · 0 0

Everyone has things they would like to change about themselves, and I am no exception. But I do actively work to change the things I don't like and continue to improve myself, and haven't been insecure about anything in my life for many years now.

2007-01-13 11:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

My self esteem is low,but it grows with each passing day.

2007-01-13 12:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Celebrity girl 7 · 0 1

i think it's like 50/50 for me. i think i am so great a lot of times, but then have extreme periods of self-conciousness and doubt. i don't have thee lowest self-esteem, but not thee highest.

2007-01-13 12:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by AngeSurTerre ♥ 3 · 0 0

No..not me. I am very confident in myself. I am not insecure about anything I have.

2007-01-13 10:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by SP 4 · 0 0

I do at the moment. That feeling always makes me want to eat at McDonald's.

I usually don't, though.

2007-01-13 11:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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