It's been a couple of hours now and I'm wondering if she will come to me and say something , anything . I thought the phone "sorry" was a little lame . What should I do ?
2007-01-13 10:37:59 · 6 answers · asked by jsjmlj 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her you are still kind of upset and want to talk about it.
2007-01-13 10:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not lame at all! What would be lame would be not saying sorry at all! - Do nothing! She's hurt, your hurt, she's embarassed, some times things that need to be said are easiest said over the phone, if thats what she felt comfortable doing let it go and expect her to do this more often. My husband and I talk on our phones with one another while we're both at home I love it! We both call eachother equally soemtimes he'll be outside or in the grage while I am in the house and there have been times we've both have said sorry for something or another.
The most important thing here is to remeber that she said she was sorry, she is waiting for you to approach her b/c she isn't going to approach you if she thinks you're still mad at her, call her back and talk drty to her or walk up to her and give her a hug! Just get over it, it is done and over with move on, the sooner the better.....
2007-01-13 18:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that while you appreciate the fact that she apologized you don't understand why she felt the need to do it over the phone. Let her know that the phone apology made you feel as though she didn't really mean it. You can tell her how her lie mad you feel and how important it is that she is honest with you.
2007-01-17 18:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be ashamed of whatever it is she did....as well as not being good with confrontation....
Have you forgave her? and if you have dont let how she said sorry be an issue....it is obvious that it was very hard for her to say sorry to begin with...maybe show her a little love to let her know she's forgiven :)
2007-01-13 18:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true indeed, the phone sorry was lame. this would be a question i would expect to see from someone talking about their gf or baby's mother. not a wife. you're married man what da feezy, why are u wondering about this on yahoo? go talk to your wife man. you two, being married are supposed to be able to discuss anything openly. you're supposed to be beyond the point of childish antics such as this. hell thats about as young as me passing a note saying "i like you do you like me, yes or no..circle one." come on man, this is your life partner. or at least she's supposed to be. if you guys arent open and honest about your relationship by now then you guys have bigger issues. be a man(not implying you aren't one) and talk to your lady. lying is a cardinal sin in a relationship but you learn from it and move forward. too many marriages are ending up in divorce because of communication issues.
2007-01-13 18:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by king.8307 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
accept it
2007-01-13 18:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Cheyenne B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋