Sexual Nude Webcam Online Chats by spouse cheating?

Question

or consider as :
1. lonely episodes,
2. not happy with relationship.

Stay or dump spouse?

Answer 1

im not sure about dumping your spouse. i would certainly talk to her to understand why she went down this track, maybe you were showing no interest in her and she was lonely. not that i condone what she did as to me it is cheating on your spouse.

if you cant sort the problem out by talking to her or if you feel you cant trust her anymore then the best thing would be to consider leaving the marriage.

without trust you dont have much left for each other.

Answer 2

Is the spouse ignoring their mate? Is that all the sex that is happening at home? If it is, then I would say 'dump'.
If the nude webcam makes them more sexual, and the spouse enjoys that, then 'keep'.
If they are doing 'it' on the web, something must be missing in their relationship.

Answer 3

Well I know I would be livid if my spouse was doing that kind of thing it could mean it is a turn on for him...have you asked him why? It could be that he is lonely or that he may not be happy or like I said it is a turn on to him before you dump him talk to him about it and tell him your thoughts and see what his is and try to work it out if not then dump him~

Answer 4

absolutely cheating if the spouse is not comfortable with it and it causes friction

before dumping spouse try to talk through it marriage counselor, therapy and a vacation. figure out what the problem is, if it can be resolved and what is important to you. dont count on spouse to sya they will not do it again and then they do and it creates problems be realistic once you find out why they are doing it.

Whatever you do dont make a rash decision without thinking through it

I hope this helps

Answer 5

Talk with them about it first. Perhaps this person doesn't' realize then you don't like it.

If they won't talk with you about it and at least come to a compromise, then you should probably dump them. But you never know that happens when you start talking about something. You might be able to make something good out of this, and you both get what you want.

Hope this helps.... :)

Answer 6

Yes it is cheating .Talk it out and stop the on line nude chats. If spouse cant stop you may wont to reconsider if you wont to stay.

Answer 7

As Dr. Phil would say, I believe that is a "deal breaker". He/she is obviously unhappy or sick. Here's the deal... if you would never do that to him/her, then it should never be done to you. Get counseling if you want to stay - but I would never easily trust my spouse again. I would dump him/her - but it is a very personal decision.

Answer 8

not sure if i totally understand ??? but i went thru somethin' similiar w/ my fiance not too long ago... He was doin' the chat thing, doin' the web thing, gettin' girls #'s off myspace an stuff... he'd give me every excuse n book an after we got n2 soooo many fights an told him it was me or them.... well it's been blissful to say the least since he quit.... hope this helps...an yes, i do consider it cheatin'.... There's a sayin' .... Cheatin' is anythin' an everythin' u would not do n front of ur significant other.....

Answer 9

Stay or dump is dependant on whether or not you can't get past it.

If it bothers you enough to post the question on the internet, I'd say dump.

Answer 10

YES!!! This is definitely cheating. Suggest you two go to counseling or at least talk this out. Then decide if you need to dump. Personally I would dump him/her!