Awkward subject... just lost my virginity a little more than a week ago, am 20y/old, I am due for my monthlies around about now, but have not noticed my usual 'symptoms of pms' which happens during the week before my period begins. We did not use a condom -have both been tested and are safe- so was a little weary of if I could fall pregnant, so went to get 'Norlevo' (morning-after pill) its pamphlet said it could delay or speed up cycle. Two days later I had unprotected sex again, but didnt do anything about it... both times my bf pulled-out even before the pre-***. Any chance? Or shall I just relax and use condoms from now on? Thanx.
2007-01-13 10:04:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Protect yourself no matter what! Do not trust the guy pulling out method because it does not work. Take it from a 21 yr old female that got pregnant TWICE but the second one died. This all happen for not being safe. I was using the condoms and pull out method. Now I have a 3 year old and a scar on my stomach from the 2nd one. You bets believe Im using the best method possible --celibacy. Have not had sex in 2 years.. no worries of being pregnant. I am very happy for that because this method is helping me accomplish many of my goals such as almost completing college even though 2007 wouldve been my year. Ah well as long as I finish. So be safe and remember a few moments of "pleasure" can cost your entire life.
2007-01-13 10:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by babyapple2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to be 100% sure of not getting pregnant, , not having sex. So yes, you could get pregnant. Were you ovulating? That's the most important thing to know. I will give you this information for the future. You get pregnant when you ovulate, so you must know your body, and know when that is happening, and be extra cautious during this time. I hope this help you.
First know when you are ovulating, that is the key!
I am a expert at this.
I have five kids.
And planned them all.
Everyone body is different.
The one and only way to tell when you're ovulating is by your vaginal discharge.
Most people ovulate around the 14th day after the first day of their period.
I ovulated the 19th day.
You have to go by your body fluids.
You will have two to three stages of fluids.
One stage will be very clear & watery.
You are not ovulating.
The discharge may become slightly thicker.
Now the way to tell if you are ovulating is, to take the discharge and either put it on toilet paper or on your finger's.
Now if you can spread your thumb and your index finger apart several times and the mucus or discharge strings along and does not break and keeps going back and forth you are ovulating.
You can do this with toilet paper too, but it is not as affective. If you can pull the paper apart several times without the mucus breaking you are ovulating.
2007-01-13 18:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be using a condom regardless if both of you tested negative for STDs. If you just lost your virginity last week, it's going to take at least a week to ten days for implantation to begin (almost sure of this). Pulling out does not guarantee anything! Just don't worry yet. Give yourself another week and if your cycle doesn't start...get a pregnancy test! If you had to resort to looking up information about the morning after pill and you don't want to use a condom, consider a form of birth control.
2007-01-13 18:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by Snickers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For future reference, you cannot pullout before precum. Precum is ALWAYS coming out during intercourse. And there are BILLIONs of little spermies that come with it. As soon as your boyfriend gets hard on they are coming out. It only takes ONE spermy to get you pregnant.
Yes there could be a chance that you are pregnant, there is always a chance that your could be pregnant when you have unprotected sex. Always. It doesnt matter what time of the month it is either. If you havent started your period in 2 weeks take an EPT.
Use condoms with spermicide. As an extra defence, I would suggest you used birthcontrol too. Or make it easy and not have sex at all.
2007-01-13 18:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by cleverness_444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the Norlevo said it could delay cycle, then why worry? And for yor own ease of mind, spend a few bucks on some condoms, even though those aren't perfect either, but it's better than putting pills in your body.
2007-01-13 18:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a chance mostly from the 2nd time. It is highly doubtful that he pulled out before pre-***. Go ahead and take a pregnancy test, if it comes back negative, get on some birth control. Condomns are not really a reliable form of birth control, for so many reasons. Good Luck!
2007-01-13 18:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by Aaliyah & Natalie's Mommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not know if you could be pregnant. I can tell you that you are 20 year old, to young to have a child. She a doctor, get birth control. If you do not want a child, use two types of birth control. A condom, and a birth control you can control. If you are old enough to have sex, you are older not to have unprotected sex.
2007-01-13 18:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur taking chances that could lead both of u stressed out, if u are preg both of u looked for that because that is why rough rider etc etc are on sale and in the hospital for free, get some and stop playing with something that someone else would enjoy freely
2007-01-13 18:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull out does not work and the morning after pill can ruin any chance of you having kids in the future ...... I DO NOT RECOMMEND PLAN B TO ANYONE.>..... And yes i can mess up your periods/
2007-01-13 18:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by heatflora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun, but pre ejaculation starts as soon as they become excitted so there is no way to guarentee that he got none in you, chances are he did. Take a early home pregnancy test
2007-01-13 18:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋