I recently moved to a small town in the middle of nowhere and haven’t really met people. The thing is, I’m actually used to having a lot of friends, and always doing stuff etc. so it’s been pretty hard. Anyway I talked to some guy on myspace, and he kept wanting to hangout. For one, just from his page I thought he looked rather dumb and extremely full of himself. Anyway he called me today and we talked for a little and... umm... let’s just say I’ve NEVER encountered someone so incredibly rude. I’ve never even met the guy! He wanted to do something tonight and I said I couldn’t, and I guess it made him mad. Because he then starts going on, saying things to insinuate that I have no life, and just went on and on. Some of the stuff he said was really quite mean. I was shocked. What kind of person does that?
2007-01-13 09:52:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
And no, I don’t really care what the freak has to say, yet it didn’t make me feel good...at all. Actually my day has been horrible :(
2007-01-13 09:53:10 · update #1
Well forget him, you can do better. And you have us tonight! The Answers Family is here to entertain! Well, I'm home with a bad back, got homework to do, and laundry, and it's cold out anyway. Hang int here; there will be other nights.
2007-01-13 10:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by LINDA G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, more the reasons why you shouldn't hang out with that guy who was rude to you. Imagine what he'll do in person if you get to know this ********. Stay away from rude people. Your life will pick up. Just go find a hobbie and relax. You'll have friends soon enough. The best way to have friends is to be one yourself to others. But never ever hang with someone rude or has that attitude. Ok? Cuz there are other's who will respect you for who you are. Take care. By the way, we all have problems, lord knows. I mean it's everyday something to deal with. Just when I thought everything was smooth then one of my friends starts to back stab me and I have to deal with that. There's a saying: Either you're in a problem, or just getting out of a problem, or heading into a problem.
2007-01-13 09:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's going to be difficult to meet people if you don't make a point of getting out and doing so. Check the local newspapers, etc and find out what's going in that holds any interest for you and just go and participate. Just because you stumbled onto one jerk it doesn't have to ruin your day or your life.
Now , if you really want to compare days, try this on for size.
I have multiple types of arthritis and as a result I am a chronic pain patient. I also have type II diabetes. My back and shoulders are bothering me more than usual and my neck is trying to turn itself into a pretzel. Oh, and did I say that I I'm expecting a furniture delivery and have been sitting here for 6 hours without hearing anything from the company? In fact, I just called them, and they have no way to contact their driver.
You asked.
2007-01-13 10:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not listen or have any other contact with this overbearing abuser. There is not any one of us who should put up people trying to belittle you, not even him. You are more valuable than this and keep it always in the front of your mind. As for recently moving and being isolated, you are certain to have hobbies and interests and you will eventually simulate into your environment and locate friends and acquaintances that share your interests. It just takes a little time. In the meanwhile, SMILE.
2007-01-13 11:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by dino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I merely moved from an exceptionally small city to a relatively-great city in a very diverse state. I went from understanding all of us in my type to understanding no person in any respect. I easily have lived right here for some months now and that i nonetheless have not met all of us that i'm relatively on the edge of. And so a techniques as impolite adult men pass... particularly some adult men around right here take care of me like i'm a chew of meat, i'm easily uncomfortable going everywhere by utilising myself by way of fact of it. Oh, and after spending six years in the midst of nowhere... i think of its secure to assert you will stumble upon particularly some idiots like this guy, yet do not situation by way of fact there are some sturdy ones too!
2016-12-16 03:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by endicott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was raised in dallas, tx and about 7 years ago when i was 15 i moved to piedmont, Oklahoma with a pop. of 200. IT sucked, within 2 months i went back to the city. I dont know how old you are, but the best thing you can do is get the hell out of there. I now go to school in Dallas metroplex and couldnt imagine having to go to school out there......let me know what u think
2007-01-13 10:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nathan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, I think this guy's a jerk & you're better off without him. If he calls again, tell him not to call anymore & hope he gets the message. I hope you didn't give him any other information besides your phone #. That would be asking for trouble!
As for my problems:
I'm stuck in a cramped 1-bedroom apartment, I have to drive an aging vehicle, I'm divorced & I'm not getting any younger.
I could go on, but I count my blessings daily.
2007-01-13 10:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋