yesterday i wrote a letter to my bf and i told him that i feel like if he doesnt love me as much as i do, and i regret telling him he told me that i doughted on his love form me i felt so bad that we got n a little argument i told him that i was sorry but i was a little mad and i dont want to lose him i regret telling him that i have no idea why i said that,i know that he loves me alot but he hasent called me at al i feel like if hes mad even though he told me he wasent he said that it made him feel bad,i told him i was sorry alot of times i love him alot and he told me to drop the conversation but i cant forget about it what should i do i dont want him to leave me plz help me.
2007-01-13 09:39:07 · 5 answers · asked by dance4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell him that you understand that he is sometimes busy and has things to do other than call you(no efense im not trying to be rude) and that you respect that,than he will trust you more and more everytime.
2007-01-13 09:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him about it. Tell him how you were feeling and why you wrote the letter and tell him why you regret writing it. Tell him your problems and try to work them out because if you don't, if you keep them inside, they will start to annoy you even more and you will start removing yourself from him and then the relationship will be doomed. Communication is the basis of a strong relationship. You need to talk to each other about things like this otherwise you will just end up being unhappy in the relationship!
2007-01-13 18:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a hater, but you need to work on your self esteem girl. Nobody should be able to mess with your head , and make you feel all messed up. I understand that you love this guy, but if an argument stays with you. It's probly for a good reason.Start to lissen to your self. In most cases you'll be right.
2007-01-13 19:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said you made him feel bad. --- you broke some of the relationship by your letter.---- he is still upset and hurt. give him time to heal. if he does want you back it will not be the same as before. if he doesn't want you back then you need to accept it.and maybe this will be a lesson learned.
2007-01-13 18:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said to drop it--drop it. Leave it alone and let it be. Don't push it or you''ll lose your friend forever.
2007-01-14 08:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋