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2007-01-13 09:38:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Sorry, but guys with small penis's just don't do it for me. I once went out with a guy who was really nice but his penis was so small it didn't have ANY effect at all. He was a really sweet guy, but he didn't really know how else to please me and towards the end of our short relationship it just wasn't working - I just didn't fancy him know what he was like between his legs.

He was such a sweet guy though - I almost wish I could have put him in some panties and one of my dresses and made him my best friend rather than my boyfriend. Come to think about it, we could have had so much more fun doing that than we did in bed! Maybe he would have been a better female lover than he was a guy! LOL!

2007-01-13 10:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin F 2 · 0 0

1 selfishness - it should be a sharing caring thing that makes you both feel gorgeous
2 lack of confidence - it makes you focus on yourself so you worry and not on your partner so you give her pleasure You have to "be in the moment" to feel sensual
3 lack of attention to hygiene and grooming - be clean, a hint of fragrance, good underwear that fits, clean sheets, tidy room
4 not being genuinely attracted to her - want her and tell her, lots - practice thinking about her and saying lovely sexy things out loud in soft warm voice if you have to
5 not getting the contraception and safe sex thing clear in your mind and organised before you start - make sure you know how she wants this done
6 not taking time to relax and have fun - play with her and her body. Don't turn it into a competition, you want to enjoy each other. You are a team so don't lose the game by trying to hard for the orgasm goal. Let it happen
7 not paying attention - listen and watch her responses to see what she wants as well as ask her if she is feeling good or wants more or less or something else. Let her know that you love it when she is feeling sexy and good
8 comfort - get the room temperature right, be a host and have refreshments or food available
9 be spontaneous - when you know she is not preoccupied which may mean helping with her chores/work/errands - use a loving, naughty approach and invite her for a quickie and don't just do it in the bedroom
10 the first rule is always - "you get what you give"

2007-01-13 10:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by heartbreak52 1 · 1 0

In no particular order

Being rough when its not appropriate
Not engaging in foreplay
Thinking he can have oral pleasure without mutual exchange
Not being sensitive
Being selfish; not helping her achieve orgasm after he is satisfied
Not having an orgasm
Not using a condom-no glove, no love WRAP IT UP

2007-01-13 15:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by msijg 5 · 0 0

When they *** to quick, not knowing the basic sex moves not wanting to try new things, the old fashion way of having sex not being open-minded, Not being able to kiss cause I'm a kisser so that's a must in my book along with other things!

2007-01-13 09:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by deezbrats 2 · 0 0

while my bf nipped my down under along with his tooth and that i've got been given an infection, exchange into not A pleasing experience for me.. And what my WORST mistake exchange into Making My Ex not placed on A condom

2016-10-19 22:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Impotency

2007-01-13 10:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0 0

Not realizing that GIVING your partner pleasure is just as important as RECEIVING pleasure. Being too quite, if he doesn't express himself by moaning or talking, then I'm totally turned off. If it seems too routine, in other words, if I know what you're going to do, in what order, and how long, you're too predictable, that's a turn off.

2007-01-13 09:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0 0

If they only think of themselves and not think of the women whatsoever. If they just do not get the womens body or her needs.

2007-01-13 09:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0 0

I think foreplay is very important. If he's bad at that then I wouldn't even bother with him.

2007-01-13 09:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Jem 6 · 0 0

No foreplay... no cuddling afterwards...

you have to use the word baby that is such a turn on...

try different postions?

2007-01-13 09:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by lovingraces 1 · 0 0

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