I got married Sept 1st of 06 and my husband and I have had a roomate since Feb of 06. At 1st it was fine and we were ok. Well my husband and I bought a house and are moving next weekend. But my roomate has seemed to make it her goal to make the last week just misrable for us. She will get on myspace and create a blog and talk about her roomates (which we all know who it is) and I am tired of it. What should I do? I mean I know I only have a week left, but Im tired of her talkin about my husband and I like we are nothing. I am just tired ofit! PLEASE HELP!!
2007-01-13 09:10:27 · 15 answers · asked by lilheart4u2luv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I got married Sept 1st of 06 and my husband and I have had a roomate since Feb of 06. At 1st it was fine and we were ok. Well my husband and I bought a house and are moving next weekend. But my roomate has seemed to make it her goal to make the last week just misrable for us. She will get on myspace and create a blog and talk about her roomates (which we all know who it is) and I am tired of it. What should I do? I mean I know I only have a week left, but Im tired of her talkin about my husband and I like we are nothing. I am just tired ofit! PLEASE HELP!!
She and I have gotten into a few times since we have been living together. She thinks that I am very self fish and that I only care about myself. She makes a point to make me unhappy.. the thing tha tgets me is that only a few times have talked to me about the prbs.. normally she will text me or even do the blog thing. SO it isnt a new trend with her.. she has always been this way.
I m just tired of it.. Thats all.. I just dont kno
2007-01-13 09:26:15 · update #1
She and I have gotten into a few times since we have been living together. She thinks that I am very self fish and that I only care about myself. She makes a point to make me unhappy.. the thing tha tgets me is that only a few times have talked to me about the prbs.. normally she will text me or even do the blog thing. SO it isnt a new trend with her.. she has always been this way.I m just tired of it.. Thats all.. I just dont know what else to do. I kno that she always complains to her fam and friends about me. Everyone of my friends hate her bc she is such a ***** about everything. If she isnt happy.. then she really doesnt want anyone else happy.
My hubby hates her. I know we only have a week left.*I kno that I will screw her in the end though bc we have a contract w/ Verizon for our phone and internet and it expires in March. Well its in her name.. and we were gonna take it. But not no more. Its her bill not mine. Plus if we were gonna take it.. it would be ours the day we leave
2007-01-13 09:28:34 · update #2
talk to out with your hubby and her tell them that u feel left out and u act like i am not here tell them how u feel when she is here, that we got married for a reason to be together
2007-01-20 16:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by deyjadyson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she mad because if you'll moving she will have to pay rent by herself. Just talk to her and explain it was everntually it was going to happen and she needs to grow up, she's acting like a spoiled brat. SHe should be ashamed of her useless self. SO be nice to her and if she still don't get the point well it's just a week. AND then when you move make a BLOG about a rooommate who never grew up and still acts like a spoiled child. But don't worry just count the days before you will leave and not worry about her anymore. Doesn't help to slap her around, or get someone to. So just be patient and went you leave just tell her it's been fun, bye.
2007-01-13 09:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just mention that the second you and your husband are clearly identifiable in the blogs then you will be suing.
Sounds like she if half ways there. A letter from your lawyer might help.
I take it ou don't intend having much to do with her after this?
2007-01-13 09:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be more mature about the sistuation, you have gotten married and if you want your marriage to work then you have to be grown up about the problem. so what ever one hates her. you should still love her and not judge her because she is judging you. if you are her friend then you will have to let her know that you will love her and that nothing will change that. but you have your own family and you have to go on with your life. and pray that God will soften her heart and give a tongue that will express love and peace.
2007-01-18 13:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by snoopy35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the contrary, you can control this situation. Either grin and bear with it or move out earlier. Also, if she continues to deface your name and reputation in print or over internet, contact a lawyer about what legal measures you can take.
2007-01-13 09:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by J T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can play the same game she is or in other words make her life just as miserable. Two can always play the game. I would say talk to her but it seems like she is the type that it would fuel her fire because it is getting to you.
2007-01-13 09:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by TritanBear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about it, but be kind, she's losing a great roomate
there has to be a reason why she's doing all of these things, and maybe she's really going to miss you and her making you feel bad is the only way she can show it
2007-01-13 09:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do the same, and talk about your roommate who feels the need to be mean and give examples. then send her a link to it. See if she likes her own treatment.
2007-01-13 09:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...It would appear that she isn't moving in with you when you move..... let her say or do what she wants...and after you move, you never have to have anything to with her ever again. Anything else just isn't worth the aggravation.
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