has anyone felt an instant attraction/rush when meeting the opposite sex, even though they are not normally your type - and what did you put your experience down to?
2007-01-13 08:57:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes & we have been married for 34 years.
2007-01-13 09:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... all the time. One day it was this really short, middle-aged, Mexican gangster-type, another time I was drawn to some ultra butch lesbian with a mohawk. Last week, I saw this incredibly gorgeous Chinese girl getting a pedicure while I was getting a haircut. She looked like someone out of a 14th C painting... I am attracted to all types of people, male and female, all races, sizes, classes and cultures. I think it's just because people are such beautiful beings...
The strongest one, though, was the day I first saw my husband. He had transferred to work in the store I worked in, and the first time I saw him, I knew I had to have him for my own. It's as though I'd known him in a past life, and was seeing him again after a long separation.
2007-01-13 09:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, i think everyone goes thru that. it's that animal lustful attraction people have. i'm not sure what you mean by 'what did you put your experience down to' but sometimes i've acted on it and gotten to know her in a few ways, other times i resisted b/c i remembered the other times i've acted on it.
in other words, it never really worked out with some of the girls i was instantly attracted, mostly b/c that decision was based on Sex, and nothing else. relationships are more than that.
2007-01-13 09:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My bloke was laughing without a care for who was there and he had this perfect grin with one tooth missing in an otherwise perfect set of teeth. He made me want to join in laughing too as it was infectious. I think it was a combination of his unusual look and the fact that he was so unreserved. Qualities I admire. You see it in a split instant and may not even recognise that you are seeing a combination of things you like as a 'whole' in one hit. You just feel that flippy tummy!
2007-01-13 09:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because we all look for something exciting or perhaps a challenge in our lives. It creates our blood to flow our heart to pump faster and makes our adrenaline flow quick!! And I'm still married to him after 34 years also.
So don't be afraid to jump in with both feet it just might surprise you!! Have fun in life, that's why we are here.
2007-01-13 09:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by MsCatie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep sure did, but I just put it down to her hour glass figure and I think perhaps the black stockings and 38 DD boobs helped also
2007-01-13 09:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by pop c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm always falling for the guys that are way out of my leauge. Even when I don't know a damn thing about them, I go nuts about them.
2007-01-13 09:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by themusicqueen17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smell.
It's often overlooked but instantly perceived by the subconscious mind.
Cheers.
2007-01-13 11:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by chopchubes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
1. need for love.
2. sincerity
3. achoring
4. matching
5. she showed signs of liking me
2007-01-13 09:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ronald Vexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I put it down to desperation. Thankfully I didn't sleep with him. I was not that desperate.
2007-01-13 09:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋