im so pissed, yesterday my mom said i couldn't go to my friends so i was mad but not as mad as i am today. so i asked again today if i could go over to her house and she said no again. this time i asked for a reason and she said its cause im not following the rules her boyfriend just made. well they are stupid rules.my mom never pays attention to me anyways so why would she want me here. so i am thinking about walking to my friends house since it is only at the front of the neighborhood. would that be counted as running away or something like that? and yes i have walked to my friends house before i did like every other day during summer. should i walk to my friends house? i have a cell fone and stuff so she could call me when she actually sees im not there.
2007-01-13 08:53:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 13 almost 14
2007-01-13 08:59:09 · update #1
who is tinkerbell???
2007-01-14 05:12:03 · update #2
Do you think your mom is going to let you go to your friend's house after you disobey her? NOPE. This isn't the way to handle this problem. She is only going to trust you less and punish you more. I would hate to be in your home after a stunt like this, all heck could break lose.
you need to have a non-confrontational talk with your mom. Sit down and talk without getting angry.
2007-01-13 09:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by bb 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You may not think that your Mom cares but I am sure she does. She may not know how to pay attention to you the way you most want her to. If you go to your friends house you will be asking for trouble. Perhaps you could ake for your friend to come over to your home? If your Mom has a boyfriend laying down the rules there must be a reason for it. It may not make sense to you but no offense, that's why you are the kid and they are the adults. If you are bored maybe you could ask your mom if you two could go spend some time together and talk to her about how you are feeling but WITHOUT any attitude or whining. I knw being a kid stinks at times but try to make the best out of it. If you do the right thing... or atleast try , your Mom will respect that from you more than you just doing what you want to do.
2007-01-13 09:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a mom, i say sure go ahead....only if you want to be more pissed later. you asked a question of your mom, she answered it. she even gave you a reason, which sounds reseaonable. it may not be, but you didn't include what the new rules your not following are (which may be helpful). so by going against what your mother has told you will only lead to worse consequenses. hence you'll end up more pissed. if you really feel your mom is being unfair and isn't paying you enough attention....instead of venting about it here and asking here. GO talk to your mom. if you don't want to talk to her face to face. write her a letter. your mom isn't a mind reader. let her know how you feel and it'll probably get better. you should be luck you have a mom at all. maybe act your age and do the right thing!
2007-01-13 09:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by blevins2147 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with your mom and have an honest discussion abou thow you feel about her boyfriend making rules for you. She needs to be your mom and not worry about what he thinks about how she is raising you. When i was 13 i would have gone to my friends house. Now as an adult i can tell you, you will only get in more trouble if you leave.
2007-01-13 09:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by lynnabugg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the other people asking how old you are! What does that matter? You need to respect your mother and what she is telling you to do. It's part of the rules. You will face worse consequences if you just take off to your friends house.
2007-01-13 11:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lina looking for love from a chi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem old enough to take matters into your own hands, be a rebel! Break some rules!
2007-01-13 12:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by The Raging Monkey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it. It's not a good idea. It would just make things way worse than they already are, because everyone knows you are unhappy.
2007-01-13 09:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.. It seems you're mom's a person who doesn't care what happens to you... Go ahead. It doesn't count as running away unless you stay there for more than a day. You're mom should be taught a lesson.
2007-01-13 09:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Riika Sakura 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Hmm. No offence but your Mom sounds like an idiot. She obvoisly doesn't pay much "real" attention to you. I'll say go ahead. She needs to be shaken enough to make her realize what's right for you and what's wrong. Hope it goes well.
2007-01-13 09:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
listen to your mom or else she will send u to boot camp
2007-01-13 10:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋