2007-01-13 07:57:41 · 23 answers · asked by jsjmlj 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Liars hate getting caught! She has found that by pretending to be mad at you, she will get her way.Don't let her get away with this. She's the guilty party...not you! I despise liars!!
2007-01-13 08:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got caught, how humiliating. She is ashamed and embarrassed not mad. You will have to go to her and let her know you are not going to hold this against her forever, everyone is entitled to a mistake now and again. Let her live it down. Forgive and be aware. If you judge her to harshly she may lie again about something really really important.
2007-01-13 09:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like to me, she is mad because you caught her in the lie.
2007-01-13 08:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Heartful_poet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you knew that she was lying, why did you embarrass her?
I feel like I could run away
Looking at a darker day
Oh I'm pulling the shades away from my eyes
It's true the moody manners come and go
And it's better that you never know
Some things are better left unsaid
Some strings are better left undone
Some hearts are better left unbroken
Some lives are better left untouched
Some lies are better off believed
Some words are better left unspoken
My ideas seem to frighten you
Are you really that afraid to move
Oh I guess that it's your right to reason
I'm still dealing with a force that's so strong
The force is stringing us along
2007-01-13 08:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello jsj,,,, I understand where you are coming from. My Ex - Husband (when he and i were together) did the same thing. I caught him several times lying to me. And he got very aggravated because i caught him being untrustworthy. When your partner lies to you and you catch them then they know that you know that the trust is gone in a relationship. And if she truly cares about you then she would not being lying to you about certain things. Sweetheart i am very sorry to have to tell you this but she has become inconsiderate and unthoughtful of your feelings. When the both of you are alone then i would tell her "We need to sit down and talk." And ask her Why she lied? ,,,, and Why she felt she needed to do that? Tell her that you are a honest person with her and that you would expect the same from her. And if she seems very reluctant to tell you why she lied then ask her if she feels that she needs counseling. I know this is a very sensitive subject. Good luck and take care sweetheart. Ann
2007-01-13 08:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she is just trying to put the spotlight on you because she knows she did wrong but she has too much pride to apologize. That really sucks because she is suppose to be mature enough to face her mistakes. I say you ignore her and give her space little by little she will realize you should be the one mad at her and not the other way around. Its reverse psychology what she is doing.
2007-01-13 08:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is mad at you cause you busted her in a lie. And the way it sounds she is acting like a little kid.
2007-01-13 08:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because nobody likes being caught. You are the one that should be mad.
2007-01-13 08:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes probably mad because you caught her in the lie
2007-01-13 08:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to make your feel responsible in order to alleviate her own guilty conscience. By acting angry with you then she doesn't have to address the lie in the hopes of distracting you from the issue and making you try to smooth things over.
2007-01-13 08:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋