2007-01-13 07:54:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dolly, I am so sorry to hear this. But it does happen a lot more than most folks realize. It's sad situation, and it can be very painful, and unfortunately it can end in divorce. When one of a couple decides to change the relationship, and doesn't consider the other's feelings in the matter..it brings trouble with a capital T.
For example, a wife decides that she doesn't need the cozy and affection way they have always been, and the husband needs the cuddles and the extra loving. Or the husband decides the wife is always going to be around, but he has a lot more fun and has more interests outside the house, and leaves the wife at home alone. Either way, which ever way it happens, it's very upsetting to the one left with their mouth wide open, and thinking "what about me".
I am so sorry to say I don't have any real advice for you other than try talking to your husband, and explain what his actions are doing to your heart. That you should always be #1 until death parts you. Your feelings should always be the most important, and his attitude lately has got you upset. Please set a time for a date night. Spend time with one another, or things will only get worse. You are a very smart and considerate wife to try to put this bush fire out before all that is left of your marriage is ashes.
I wish you good luck, and I hope your husband really listens, and that you both can get back on track. Praying that you can find the solution.
God bless us all...........
2007-01-13 10:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 steps to take....1. Pack up. 2. Say Goodbye 3. Leave! If you're NOT a priority in his life, someone else is!
2007-01-13 15:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What exactly do you mean,priority? Center of his life,or affection?
In all reality you can't expect to be someone's center of life forever ,and it he loves you,and you still have the same affection,then what is wrong?
Let him know how you feel,and don't let your side be ignored,or else it will end up,in a misunderstood relationship
2007-01-13 16:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give it over, you find out why he feels this way and fix it. Stay married, it's too easy to just divorce like everybody else. Try to be understanding and work it out.
2007-01-13 16:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really need more info than this, but sounds like either he is no longer happy with you. Or he has grown so comfortable in the relationship that he just takes it for granted and probably doesn't even know he is. like i said need more info really, good luck.
2007-01-13 20:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is being unfaithful you better go or tell him to go. If he's just not paying you as much attention as you would like, let him know that you are upset and try to work it out, maybe he does'nt realise there is a problem.
2007-01-13 16:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by pansi1951 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Return the favor
2007-01-13 15:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then get a new husband! No need to be mistreated, made to feel unimportant etc.,
2007-01-13 16:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by OllieD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and find out why,maybe there some explication to it,but don't stay like that it gonna make you depress.it doesn't work out divorce.good luck
2007-01-13 16:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by tuchulapr0808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start believing in yourself.
You deserve better.
2007-01-13 17:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋