I don't know what to do. We still talk but I want him to know that I like him, but if he doesn't like me it would break my heart. If he does like me it could wreck our relationship. He flirts with me and I flirt with him but is that friendship flirting with him? Or deep down does he really like me?
Another thing is that my friend used to go out with him and she said that he still likes her. My other friend likes him. Thing is he is like my big brother and I have a way better relationship with him.(So far)
So what do I do?
2007-01-13 07:50:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The thing is he barely talks to my friend and isn't that a little weird if he "likes" her?
2007-01-13 08:21:54 · update #1
I have similar situation. I grew up with my bf. He's like my brother. And of course, the more we associate, our feelings developed. It was hard to tell if we liked each other cuz I was afraid if he rejected me. So i waited until he confronted me with his feelings about me. Finally he told me he liked me. I was so glad that I didnt step up first. It took a long time for him to confronted me. I think if I told him long ago that I liked him it wouldve been fine but I pulled off. I suggest you immediately tell him in person that you liked him. Just be warned and dont get your hope high, if he doesnt feel the same way about you, try not to get downhearted. It will hurt you first but the best way is to move on and tried not to hurt your relationship. How can you not get hurt? Well make sure you tell him that it best not to flirt cuz it'll lead you to think he likes you. So if you tell him not to flirt but continue to be friend. you'll be fine.
2007-01-20 18:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nelfie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I regret sleeping with a guy who was my best friend. It totally ruined our relationship. And I really miss him to this day. My feelings of romance where not what I thought. It must have been that I loved him like a brother, not like a lover.
2007-01-13 15:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he flirts with you say "Better be careful, or I might take you up on that, and THEN what would you do?"
Say it in a playful manner, smiling but look him right in the face to see his reaction.
2007-01-18 00:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by cleo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly this guy is able and willing to make his feelings known to you if he wants to. He made them known to your friend. Don't tell him. Move on and keep your friendship. He can't feel that way about you because he likes your friend.
2007-01-13 16:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by sheepinarowboat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him.And if he doesn't feel the same way,just be friends.Thre are more fish in the sea.
2007-01-14 13:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he likes your friend and ask your friend if she would get mad if you guys had relationship. get someone to ask him for but not tell him that you wanna know!o and think about what you want first!
2007-01-21 01:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by edina a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him he might fell the same way about you
2007-01-19 23:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by ........... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. You will feel better, and he will be suprized.
2007-01-19 19:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by prettydarling1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are friends ,like you say you are, you should be able to talk to him honestly.
2007-01-13 15:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by giselle g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and see for yourself who know's he could be mr. right
2007-01-21 14:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋