Don't want to physically hurt him too bad
2007-01-13 07:43:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kim 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's nice to most of my friends, but sometimes he may go a little overboard...and plus i don't want to lose him so don't say anything close to me breaking up with him, cuz it just won't happen
2007-01-13 08:14:05 · update #1
You should sit down and let him know that you are not happy the way he treats your friends. Ask him what issues he as with the ones he mistreats. Let him know that it is rude and unacceptable to you for him to treat your friends badly. If he has a problem with your friends then he should opt not to be around when you are with them. Like the old saying goes if you can't say anything nice then it's better to not say anything at all. I am not sure what his issues are with your friends, but listen closely if he decides to tell you why he doesn't like them. Sometimes people who are on the outside might see things that you miss. Because they are your friends you might not see or hear things he does when you are around them, or maybe when you are not around. It is also possible friends of friends might be telling him things that are making him mad at them. Remember there is always the possibility that your friends laugh and smile in your face while you are there and talk badly about you behind your back. At any rate it is best that you sit down and have a good long talk with him about the situation. Good luck on your out come with this matter.
2007-01-21 06:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it and tell him how you feel, and I know you may not want to break up with him but if he continues to act the way he is now you may have to decide if he is more important than your friends.
2007-01-21 15:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by shaylee_maddock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THat's easy you can threat him that you will leave him and you will search for a new boyfriend if he treat your friends bad .
because respecting your friends is also respecting for you
2007-01-20 17:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you care about you friend alot and if he cares about you, he'll treat them better and show more respect for you friends.
2007-01-13 15:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really care about him you need to be honest and talk. if he doesnt agree with you, you shouldnt be with him. honesty is the key to a relationship.
2007-01-20 00:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by cheer4him 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's mistreating your friends why are you with him? Are you sure about this?
2007-01-13 15:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by bluecolouredflames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOOL!!!, Y ARE YOU SHOWING YOUR FRIENDS YOUR MAN. GIRLFRIEND YOUR FRIENDS ARE DOING YOUR MAN. GET OVER IT. NEVER SHOW FRIENDS WHO YOUR MAN IS. THATS A TICKING BOMB WAITING TO EXPLODE IN YOUR FACE.
2007-01-20 14:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by !@#$%^&*() ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. it aint up to you to "punish" your boyfriend.
2007-01-18 21:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Haley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋