How many marriage are loss on account of this? Low self esteems both partners scared to express their true feelings waking away from something that could of been resolved just because we are unwilling to compromise? Or tell the other how much we really loved them because we may be shot down w/ rejection so we dont try?
2007-01-13 07:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by dork 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe pride is the chief cause of the decline, in the number of husbands and wives.......I am GUILTY!
2007-01-13 07:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cover a lot of ground here, none of it very positive for a lasting, fruitful relationship. The first thing you should do is seek outside help from a third party, like a clergyman, counselor, etc. Unless you are both willing to get some help, the ultimate sacrifice would be divorce. Although it may be for the best, I think there are underlying issues that will continue to haunt both of you until you get to the bottom of them once and for all. Good luck!
2007-01-13 07:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteChocolate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of communication is probably the biggest problem in relationships. Woman need emotional connections. Talking is the #1 way to develope emotional connections. We need conversations that have feeling. Sharing dreams and pain and happy thoughts. They want to talk about what's for dinner. When we have a problem we want to talk through them. They think that if you ignore the problem it goes away and they can't understand why we bring up fights from the past. We need resolution and they can't understand that. Too many relationships are lost over something that is so easy to fix. It is so sad.
2007-01-17 06:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by adondeesta1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need marriage counseling. If you are already married you should already know your true feelings. You made a commitment
to each other. Doesn't that count for something? Be the bigger person. If you really love your partner, be willing to compromise. You'll only regret it if you don't try.
2007-01-13 07:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by judywalker23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As this is a 2 person problem you and your husband i suggest marriage councilling for the best result .Good communication is essential for any relationship to work and last long.
2007-01-13 07:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both need express their feelings and not let the fear of rejection stop them from speaking from their heart. That's why people have throats, to swallow the stubborness and pride. And they find out it doesn't choke them like they thought it would.
2007-01-13 07:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is caused when two people cannot reach a decision of solution to rid their woes or problems that plague them for imminent divorce.
2007-01-13 07:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct, alot of relationships are lost over both people being stubborn. There has to be a happy Medium there and Both must be willing to meet it. if not its a lost cause...
2007-01-17 07:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is from God not something man has made up there is only one reason for divorce look in the Bible at Matt. 19:9 God will not except any other reason
2007-01-13 07:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by pappyg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try couseling...they may have a different way for communicating more effectively.
2007-01-13 07:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋