and i had a chrush on this boy since 2002 and i still do i dont know what to do i really love him i don't know if he loves me?????
2007-01-13 06:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by cool2chick2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well first of all it might hurt but i am not trying to get here best answer title. I am just going to be honest with you. Most likely he is not in love with you, but he may like you. The reason why i say he dont love you is for a simple fact that you guys dont even talk. Just because you have a crush on him, doesnt mean he have a crush on you, just because you say you love him, doesnt mean he do. Make sense? Stop beating yourself up and just try to talk to him. DO NOT TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM. He will run and wont look back unless he trully love you back. Just start off slowly by talking to him, hanging out, first date, second date, lovee dovee **** and then tell him you had a crush on him for a while. If he like you at least a little bit it will boost him up and most likely you will end up hooking up and all the good stuff....Just dont rush it, feel me? Good luck.
2007-01-13 08:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel i liked a boy for sooo long but because i was 2 shy 2 even talk 2 him i gave up bt dnt b a coward like me! jus go for it i got the boys msn addy so do that n tell him how u feel it shud all work out in the end jus think wat cud b afta u tell him u cud eitha get wiv him or not n if not at least u know how he feels n tha u shud start tryin 2 move on itl b hard bt trust me go 4 it !! :D
2007-01-14 04:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushes are tough, mostly because adults discount them as childhood or silly, but they still are so strong and can hurt so bad! Since it's been going on so long I think you need to do the hard thing and talk to him. Tell him how you feel, but man you have to be brave to do that it's like so scary! Good luck, just don't keep suffering in silence.
2007-01-13 15:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose if you ask him, and if the answer is negative, you couldn't look in his eyes, ever again.So I suggest you to find out, but don't ask him direct! just be calm and don't make him nervous! Everything will be ok! Just be friends with him, and you will find out if he loves you. Good luck!
2007-01-13 15:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look girl don't beat around the bush ok. just lay it on the line and tell him how it is for you, then at least you'll find out for sure which way things are going to go, you'll either get it together with him or you'll be able to move on. life's too short, just do it.
2007-01-13 15:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i am young and i have liked a boy for 3 years huh aint that funny
2007-01-13 20:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just tell him how you feel about him you might sound a bit :S lol but...he could feel the same way about you..or ask one of your m8's to ask him whether he likes you or not...if he doesnt try to express your feelings to somebody new!
Hope this helps you x
2007-01-13 16:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by x-Kelly-x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get one of your pals to find out frm him or one of his pals if e's into u too.. if he is thats great! if heisn't well its his loss so at least u found out and can concentrate on other people
2007-01-13 15:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by paulpoulboy. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one thing you can do. ask him. either you do it yourself or you ask a friend. as they always say " you never know until you try" what is the worst he can say? "no"
2007-01-13 15:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by gemz1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a friend, and ask the friend if she'll ask another frien to ask him if he likes you! *pant*
2007-01-13 15:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy Lilian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋