I got in a LOT of TROUBLE. My dad was annoyed he had to go to my school again. He yelled at me in the principals office in front of the principal and vice principal. Then they asked me to leave and he talked with them and I came back in and he decided he was going to paddle me right there. I was like that is so dumb you haven't done that in a long time. But he did and it was SOOO EMBARRASSING! and he made it hurt and I cried a little! After, the Vice Principal was like ok let's all sit down and she goes "except maybe Lori would rather not sit" like it was funny to her. My Dad says I have to write a letter of apology to the Principal, VP, 4 of my teachers, the librarian and 2 admin assistants and my friend's mom and get each signed and until they're all signed I am grounded. Then he says if he ever has to go there again they are going to suspend me, he is going to spank my butt until it's purple and then send me to military school. THIS REALLY STINKS! WHY IS HE BEING SO HARD ON ME??
2007-01-13 06:27:47 · 12 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And I have to hand write each letter separately. He said they all can't say the same thing. I told him this is the dumbest punishment ever and he was like I better stop complaining or he will find a military school for me.
2007-01-13 06:35:07 · update #1
Madmaxine, thanks for being nice. In answer to question, yeah my dad had work. We moved here a few years ago after my mom died and he probably has had to come in I don't know 7 or 8 times so far when I got in trouble. I know I backtalk a lot it's just hard not to when I disagree with something. They didn't use to make such a big deal about this back when we were in Minnesota.
And well I am not going to show my butt to a doctor that would be humiliating whether I got spanked or not. He hadn't touched me in like I don't know 4 or 5 years but he was like I had 1000 warnings and I was acting alike a five year old.
2007-01-13 06:48:29 · update #2
Another terrible answer from Annamarie, I guess she just likes to harass people. Whatever.
2007-01-13 15:39:58 · update #3
It's really no surprise that Annamarie's percentage of best answers is only 1%, LOL.
2007-01-13 15:57:16 · update #4
I am far from a public school fan so I don't know if you deserved to get in trouble or not, but if your father spanks you to the point that you can proove it an hour later by showing your bottom to a Doctor, he will have crossed the line. That would be a crime.
Was your father working when he had to come to your school? It is possible the got chewed out by his boss when he said he had to go to your school. Some bosses will fire employees who take to much time away from work. It is possible you father is facing a job loss because of all the trouble you get into. Then he would be facing the embarrasement of the unemployment line.
I have a big mouth too, so I know it is hard sometimes to keep your mouth shut,but sometimes it is the wisest thing to do.
2007-01-13 06:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mad Maxine 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you have some very important lessons to learn here. If your dad is been patient with you before, he's obviously given you chances to do better, and you continue with the same bad behavior.
If you frequently get into trouble, then I don't think what he is asking of you is unreasonable. I don't agree with spanking, but if you're going to act like a little kid, then he should treat you like one....
Backtalking is incredible immature. If you have a problem with a teacher, you should sit down with them alone and discuss it, not get all snippy and snarky in the middle of class. That is disruptive and completely innappropriate.
I don't know how old you are, but you need to learn that your attitude will not take you very far in the real world. You can't just back talk your boss, you'll be fired. You also have to learn to take the punishment for your actions.
Military school might not be such a bad idea.
2007-01-13 14:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tiff 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you being so hard on everyone else!
You are not showing them any kind of respect so why should they treat you any different than you are treating them.
You said "again" so obviously you have not learned from your past mistakes - you are not smarter than they are - you are not in control of the rules - you have been in school for years and still have not learned how to talk / respond to adults at school in the appropriate way? instead of focusing on their bad behavior, why not take a look at yourself - I am sure you knew you were talking back while you were doing it.
Get a grip, grow up and act like an adult.
2007-01-13 14:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's about time.
From reading some of your other questions, you seem like a spoiled little girl. It's about time someone took charge of you. And he is not being "hard on you" you spoiled child. You think just because your mom died, you deserve to be treated like a little girl? I don't think so. you seem to bring up your mom dying in a lot of your questions. Apparently for people to feel sorry for you. Well, I have no sympathy. I lost a mother too. She died when I was a baby. However, you don't see me going to school, backtalking the teachers, and acting like a spoiled little baby. You're not the only person who lost someone in this world.
Maybe now that your dad put his foot down, you'll learn right from wrong. Maybe it's not too late. I think it's sad you whine about how much it hurt and how much it emberrassed you, when reading your other questions, you deserved for it to happen a long time ago. Maybe if your dad busted your butt a long time ago, you wouldn't be the spoiled brat you are today. And I'm sorry if that's rude. It's the truth. And the truth seems to hurt. Oh well.
I never came borderline close to being suspended, because my dad taught me right from wrong when I was young. Therefore, when I became your age, I knew right from wrong and I didn't give him that many problems.
Don't get suspended. He won't have to spank you again and send you to military school. And grow up a bit. This whining "he hurt me and emberrassed me.. boo hoo.. feel bad for me.." thing is for babies.
2007-01-13 19:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Annamarie 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
well obviously those teachers and your dad got their point out to you. High school is a time to grow up but to still be a kid. erm.. a young adult. I know you would feel like a whole ton of sh!t if someone bad talked you. to make yourself feel good maybe just try to mind your own buisness and get your school work done. your probably sick of hearing this but you'll totally undestand when you grow up.
2007-01-13 15:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to not to think you're always right, I doubt you are. Take peoples opinions, think about them, then if you have something to say to a teacher or adult say it after class or something.
2007-01-13 15:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Symbiotic Harmony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOUR DAD!!!!!!! It's about time a parent steps up and does something right and not be afraid of what other people are going to think. He's being hard on you BECAUSE YOU WON'T LISTEN. Hello????
2007-01-13 15:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Grow up. You deserve to get in trouble. There are consequences for all your actions. Be more mature.
- Bride
2007-01-13 15:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Tori 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
because your parents love you. You are a refelection of them and if you go to school and act a fool that makes them look bad as well as yourself.
2007-01-13 14:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by cajunprincess97 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well you should straighten up and watch your mouth in school.
2007-01-13 14:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋