my parents wont let me go out wit mai firends and im alomost 14.i have a 3,88 gpa i never dont anything to stupid , and they all of a sudden stopped trusting me. it came out of nowhere and i havent done anything wrong .
what do u think ?
2007-01-13 06:25:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It may not be the fact that they don't trust you, it maybe your friends they don't trust. If they haven't been around your friends, then they can't trust them not to do something stupid and pull you into the mix. My parents were the same way with me when I was your age, but once they got to know my friends everything went back to normal.
2007-01-13 06:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by sunflowerlizard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There tryen to protect u. From what my family didn't do. Being 16 with a baby boy is not good for u or Ur look. But when u see that baby look at u hear the word mommy or pup. U forget that u don't have a life u want. U have that little baby that u love so much and think the world of.
2007-01-16 14:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Crain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are doing the correct thing! i am 19 and go to college and have a 4.0 GPA and my parents dont let me go out either but as i grew older i understood why and you will to later they only want the best for you and are scared your are to little and can make mistakes, because U ARE LITTLE!. u are a baby a little girl. take things slowly everything will happen at its right time
2007-01-13 06:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by SO......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you need to talk to them, they are just trying to protect you of course. They love you very very much. where exactly are you wanting to go? If it's just "out" and no where in particular that might be why. Maybe if you are going to a friends house or something to play Playstation or whatnot then maybe they might be better with that if they spoke to your friends mom. they need time to adjust to the fact that you're a young man now instead of a little boy. give them time, they'll come around.
2007-01-13 06:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Gig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know what boys are like. Even if they know you won't do anything they know that a boy may rape you and possibly get you pregnant. And they don't want to see you as a teen mom. That's why they're not letting you go out with your male friends. It has nothing to do with you at all.
2007-01-13 06:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well My daughter is 14 and will be15 in may and I trust her But she is not dating till she is 16.I am sure your parents trust you but us as parents have to protect you for as along as we can,Maybe going to a function that is supervised by Adults that your mom knows or meeting a Boy at the Mall and walking around,But still your parents should be in the mall also.
2007-01-13 06:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you behave badly when you're with your friends (like point and laugh at elderly people, or tease guys you don't know) then I can understand. My mother doesn't like to take my sister and her friend to K-Mart even because they don't behave. Talk to your parents about this and see if you DID do something to make them make the decision that NO you can't go to wherever with your friends.
2007-01-13 07:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to listen to your parents and obey.
If you need to go out, just to have something to do. I suggest you stay and study some grammar and spelling. You can use some improvements in that area.
2007-01-13 06:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, won't let you go "out"? Good heavens, my son is 16 and he still has to be home every evening. Just chill out. Your time will come.
2007-01-13 07:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there most likely scared of letting you go and it matters where you were going with your friends if i were you id simply sit my parents down and explain to them that im not 5 anymore and i have friends maybe then they will realize they cant hold you back forever
2007-01-13 06:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋