I am i pregnant?

Question

ok im 17 i just had sexy for the first time every, physically ready emotionally not sure... but neway what has happend has happened, now i did something very stupied i had sex but it was unpretected and im not sure if im pregnant im to young to have a child i have furture goals and plus my parents would kill me. we had sex for about 5-8 min it hurt so bad i told him to stop i didn't feel no pleasure at all he pulled out but i not sure if he pre cam in me. that night i got my period but after that my stomach as been bloating and i've been havin pain in my lower abdomen/utterus area... i've been tried lately,and i dont know it seems im just rambling on and on but im so scared i went to my school wellness center they said i was not pregnant that i've already ovulated but im so scared i dont want a baby. i can feel so things movein my stomach and im thinking its him/her moving im not nausea just scared somebody pls help. as of now im goin to remain sex free untill im READY 4 a child

Answer 1

you are just probably stressing, no big deal your bleeding was probably just getting your "cherry popped" which will also bring some cramping. The oher symptoms are probably just all in your head hun! seriously, you keep on believing that u r pegnant enough that your body will start acting like you are so seriously relax and you will see how you will notice that you will be back to normal in no time.

Answer 2

You are right what is done is done, now stop beating yourself up over it. It is OK you are not the first one to make a mistake like this. What you need to do is waite till your next period and see if it is late, if it is then take a home pregnancy test. If you feel like you may be pregnant you need to go to a school counselor and ask for help. They can help you talk to your parents. If not a counselor talk to an adult that you know and and trust and have them go to your parents with you.

Now let me tell you this, if you started your period right after you had sex it is not likely that your are pregnant, possible but does not usually happen. You may not have started your period, it may have been blood from the skin breaking inside, which is what happens when you have sex for the first time, that is why it hurt so bad. Of course if you bled for more than a day it was probably your period.

OK deep breaths it will be all right.

Answer 3

If you are old enough to get pregnant you are old enough to take responsibility for your actions and have the baby. If you do not want to be pregnant - DON'T HAVE SEX

Call 1 800 848 5683 free National Pregnancy Hot Line, they talk with you and can hook you up with a Pregnancy Resource Center near you. The Center has trained counselors, gives free pregnancy tests. All their services are free and confidential.


About having sex, there are over 50 sexually transmitted diseases common among teens and preteens today. About STDs
Most have no cure
Some can cause cancer
Some can do continual life long damage
Some can kill your baby, if your doctor does not know you have it
Condoms do not protect you against STDs
STDs can be caught from ANY sexual contact, not just "it"\
When you have sex, you are having sex with every diseased person your partner ever slept with.

So rethink your lifestyle - Call the Hot line and go get a Pregnancy Test.

Answer 4

OK 1st Hun...u need to calm down , just so u know u would have to be about 4 mths pregnant to feel a baby move and after u had sex it probably wasn't your period ...u do bleed after your first time due to the tearing of the hymen...i glad to hear that u r going to wait to have sex again...that is a smart choice..u r young and u don't need a baby at your age...as for being pregnant probably not...but just to make yourself feel better...go to a walk-in clinic and get a test done, its free and not by your family doctor..it will clear your mind...and please remember the next time u decide to have sex plz plz plz used a condom...remember pregnancy is not the only thing to worry about when having unprotected sex... I hope this helps and Good Luck Hun

Answer 5

Hello,
If you went to your school wellness center and they told you were not pregnant, I would tend to believe that.

Regarding the feelings you are having of something moving in your stomach, that is not a baby. Maybe gas or stress or something. But a woman doesn't feel a baby move until she is approximately 5 or 6 months pregnant.

I think remaining sex free is the best idea.

Answer 6

First of all, the chances of you being pregnant are slim, and regardless, you really won't know until you either take a blood test, or wait until your next period comes. By the way, the chances are slim NOT because you had sex the day of your period, but because it didn't last very long, and it seems that it wasn't "finished".

As for not having sex until you want a child. How about waiting until you are ready and using protection instead.

Good luck!

Answer 7

just wait until it is time for ur next period if it is late then go back to the wellness center or go to a doctor and get a test done or u can take one at home if u r really that scared about it u could go to the doctor and request for a blood test to be done and it should tell u if u are pregnant or not ok good luck i hope the best for u

Answer 8

If you don't want to get pregnant try tracking your periods. You have to be aware to make safe choices when it comes to sex. Go get on birth control pills right away and tell yoru man to cover up! Don't do that **** without a condom, sheesh, there's more to worry about out there then just pregnancy. Your guidance counsellor might be correct, you could have passed your window of opportunity so you're not pregnant, but how does she know for sure if you don't! http://www.mymonthlycycles.com/ That is a great site for helping to track your monthly cycles. Use it and you'll always know.

Answer 9

It doesn't sound like you are pregnant. You can get pregnant without total ejaculation so please don't have unprotected sex again!!!! You are probably very nervous abouth the whole thing that is what is causing the symptoms you are having.. Did you take a pregnancy test? Feeling things moving in your stomach is not a baby. It takes months before you can feel a baby move..

Answer 10

i changed into precisely 4 weeks pregnant. i got here upon out the day my era must have all started. often i might want to have waited, yet something did not sense precise so I took a attempt. i'm now 21 weeks 3 days w/ toddler a million.