2007-01-13 05:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
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2007-01-13 05:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Terence C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make it very clear from day one that you are not looking for any kind of commitment in a relationship.You do not want to be called every 5mins,and that you are just looking for good times and that is it.To many women that might be a great put off ,as they may really like you.So atleast the ones who dont bother with you again after you have said that were probably the ones looking for something more serious.I would tred carefully as emotions can develop between two people very easily,and people can get hurt in non commitment relationships,even men!
Also when theres sex involved in a no strings relationship,people can still feel used when theres no after care.Just be very bold in explaining what you want.You dont want to end up with somebody going crazy with you for not making it clear to them in the beginning.
2007-01-13 09:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by smiler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being up front from the door. There are a lot of women have no problem with the no strings relationship, sometimes it is better this way for all concerned.
2007-01-15 22:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way. Your have to be honest with her. You don't necessarily have to tell her on the first date, if you don't know her yet. That's the time for getting to know each other and the subject just may come up which will make it an easy intro. Be honest with her and be a gentleman, don't string her along through misconception. You just may very well fall in love with her, stranger things have happened! Good luck:)
2007-01-13 05:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by leslie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get a pair of scissors and cut off the strings :D
2007-01-13 22:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lilac Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think there is such a thing... but you could start by asking her what she is looking for... you don't want to come across as a cold hearted using son of a who ever.... do you! ? So ask her and say you are not 'ready' for a deep and meaningful one...blah blah...cliche...cliche.... she will still see through you and know you just want your leg over and over...mmmnnn...... good luck!
2007-01-13 05:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Susie Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. I've researched here and there isn't an answer to your question.
For some obscure reason, it seems that you are bound to ask each of them, one by one by one as to whether they will join in with you in this search for you 'minimum adventure.'
Best of luck.
Sash.
2007-01-14 09:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty about what you want. Don't string someone along with vague promises of a 'relationship', if it's sex only you want then make it clear. Oh, and PLEASE use a condom ... there's enough unwanted babies around without a few more coming alone...
2007-01-13 05:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, make sure you dont fall in love with her. seriously, most people fall in love with "no-strings" relationships so be careful and always use a condom.
2007-01-13 09:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want sex but no relationship... Simple, she'll either slap you or drag you to the bedroom... Don't bother lying though
2007-01-13 05:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋