Would you rather see a few people casually and be free to meet and date new people? OR be married or in a committed relationship. Briefly explain why.
2007-01-13 05:01:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married for 25 years and while it has it's difficult moments, those times when I look out the window, sigh and wonder why I did it, overall, I guess it's the better thing for me.
there are many occasions when I wish I could be single again, but I'm not. So I try not to look at the other guys lawn. My grass may have a few weeds but it's a whole lot easier to tend it than to climb the fence again.
I like the security. I like knowing that he still loves me after all this time. He once told me that I wear the past beautifully. How can a woman say no to that?
sigh*
2007-01-13 05:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-13 13:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by tawfik 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have dated casually, and its fun, as long as everyone is aware of it and they can all agree to the casual dating.
Being in a relationship limits serial dating so to speak. It binds you more to one person and well you don't need to worry about getting a disease.
The type of relationship you want basically depends on the type of commitment you are wanting. Dating is less committed while monogamy means a commitment to one person.
2007-01-13 13:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad that I'm married, because I'm with the same woman, and I don't have to worry about making mistakes with names. And also over time I've learned what my wife likes and doesn't like, where as if I saw people casually, I would have to learn what each woman likes and doesn't like. Kinda hard to keep track of that after a while.
2007-01-13 13:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have an monogamous relationship. I feel that if I'm being causal so are the other people that I meet and date and that can lead to serious problems down the line.
2007-01-13 13:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
monogamous relationship for a couple of reasons...i can only date one person at a time and get to know them intimately otherwise i am just waisting my time. I'd rather be in a committed adult relationship. also if you are "seeing" a few people the rate of STD's goes way up and that is just grouse!
2007-01-13 13:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on where you are in your life at the time.
There's a time for everything....sometimes dating casually and at some point making a serious life-time commitment.
I'm in a very long life-time commitment (marriage) but I took time before this to date a lot of people casually to find the perfect one for me.
2007-01-13 13:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Monogamous relationship. I prefer the security of knowing you have someone that loves you no matter what. Rather than not knowing if you'll have a date on friday nights, or if you'll have to go to bed alone.
2007-01-13 13:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am a woman , do you happen to know Bryan Adams ''Yes I die for you...?'', it results when you will see the one you will rather die than loose her (if you are a boy)or him(if you are a girl), and obviously you will want to merry after 15 minutes (after you see the way that person thinks - as a proof for the beauty). Anyway don't rush into anonimous sexual relationships , because God could take the one from you and give it to a better.I recomand this all the time to my brother.
2007-01-13 13:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I "personally" prefer the few casual. I don't have to put up with moods, L come and go as I please, and have my time when I want and need it. But then I am older and past the time of having children. When it comes to a younger person they need to weigh it all out carefully.
2007-01-13 13:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋