like if you read the "ah oral sex and breaking up" thing ive been through a bad break up and my new bf says i love you" a lot and honestly dont like it. like but i dont want to be a ***** is there any way to tell him nicely?
2007-01-13 04:54:18 · 19 answers · asked by [[♥case-face♥]] 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him saying "i love you" a lot in a nice, sweet tone. Tell him that you know he loves you, but you don't want to know every 10 seconds.
2007-01-13 04:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him loving you, but when he tells you too often it takes away from how special it is; almost like "diluting" it. In a light hearted way you can tell him to save it for special occasions, because you are so glad he came into your life.
2007-01-13 13:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you uys been together, how old are you guys? tell him you guys are moving way to fast and that you need to slow down. tell him thats what happened last time you got your heart broke. and that youcare enough for him to slow down. not that you need space but to slow up on the love stuff. now the real question, do you love him? maybe your looking for an easy way out?
2007-01-13 13:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by tsd574 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could ask him not to do it because it makes you uncomfortable, try not to be to hard on him though. Or you could give a big speech about the meaning of the word and how it becomes less meaningfull everytime he says it.
2007-01-13 12:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest because with everything people go through these days not many people are honest to people or their self
2007-01-13 13:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-13 13:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
ah, i went through the same problem. you should just tell him that you don't feel comfortable when he says it
good luck
2007-01-13 12:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to at least tell ya 1 time aday, or just tell him he says it an awful lot and it makes u some wat uncomfortable and that it seems like hes obsessed or somethin, my bf tells me he loves me alot but i like it, but just tell him its not such a big deal im sure he will understand. its kinda like when u tell people to stop repeating them selves!!!
oh thanks for e-mailin those girls, one of them did apologise to me(the one whos sister e-mailed u bac) but i think maybe her mom made her, and her friends wont speek 2 her any more, anywayz thanks and i hope i also helped u some also!!!
2007-01-13 18:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by EYEZ GONNA KILL YOOO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i love you too but i am not ready to do that but he do not like to go slowly than say good bye to him and find someone good
2007-01-13 13:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Peaches A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that those are pretty strong words and that your relationship is still new and would feel comfortable using that phrase when your relationship is more stable...be honest
2007-01-13 12:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by dreamer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋