I'm trying to think of what to do for Valentines this year for my wife. I've thought about her and I going to a spa here in town that offers a couples massage where we would get a massage together, or maybe get someone to watch the kids for a weekend around Valentines and go to a romantic bed & breakfast.
Would appriciate any ideas.
2007-01-13 04:53:13 · 18 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, when I have to pick a best answer it's gonna be tough, because you all are giving such great answers.
Thank you everyone, I appriciate all your answers.
2007-01-13 05:07:01 · update #1
Hey Carleemay, thanks for your suggestion. When I posted this question, my thinking about this, whatever I decide to do, I'm doing this not expecting sex. Because if I went into making the decision thinking am I gonna get laid, I think it would ruin the gift for my wife.
2007-01-13 05:16:38 · update #2
Hey Nicky, get your mind out of your pants. I said a bit ago, that I'm not expecting sex at all from whatever I do.
There's more to life than sex.
2007-01-13 05:39:59 · update #3
Whatever you do don't plan on the sex thing. Make her feel like its her day and treat her like the true woman she is. Don't plan on getting something in return cause I hate when mine has a hidden agenda lol. On that day make sure she doesn't have to lift a finger at all. Have the babysitter and plans already made so she feels that you put alot of thought into it. Does she ever wish that you guys can go somewhere that you would never go to? Think back about what she expressed to want to do in the past and then plan to do that. Then she;ll for sure know that you listen lol. By the end of the night you wont even have to plan the whole sex thing cause she'll already have that in mind...Just go with the flow and make sure she knows how much work you have done to make her feel special...I hope this helps out alittle
2007-01-13 05:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a nice hotel and set up a sitter . then have a stretched limo come to pick you up with a dozen long stem red roses inside,and a bottle of her favourite wine or champagne . whne you get to the hotel relax for a bit then give her a complete body message relaxing her and letting her know you care and appreciate her ... then a nice supper at a nice restaraunt preferbaly the first one you took her to on the first date unless it is a mc donalds or taco bell LOL stay away from the fast food LOL .then retire to the hotel room and furfil her every need wether it be for a nice relaxing bath with out the kids running around and fighting or another message ..
2007-01-13 13:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by cliff_aka_colt_4_5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a sweetheart! How about the bed and breakfast thing, but YOU give her the massage!! Go somewhere like Bath &Bodyworks and have a basket put together for her, including some nice massage oil.
2007-01-13 13:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by dog8it 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get kids a babysitter,take her to a spa and tell her you love about every 10 minutes.Most of all buy her her favorite kind of flowers and things should work out.
2007-01-13 12:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by lexmark_z_35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like you don't really need ideas, you have come up with two very thoughtful ideas right there! If she doesn't work, and is with the kids all the time, take her away for the weekend, for sure. Good luck!
2007-01-13 13:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the 2nd one better. A break for just the both of you and I am sure you can still do the spa together. I really like it when me and my hubby did that last year.
2007-01-13 12:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bed and breakfast with a day spa.....Nice any women would like that the surprise is even better...
2007-01-13 12:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I don't have any ideas,but I'm a wife whom want to tell you that is so sweet of you to think about it,wish you both the happiest Valentine's day ever.say hello to your wife for me
2007-01-13 12:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quality Time together is always invaluable. Make a book with personal requests that she would like.
2007-01-13 13:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about the movies then a lovely candlelit dinner for two. You can also consider travelling too if you wish.
2007-01-13 12:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋