get a boyfriend? I am young but not too young and I have never had a boyfriend i know I'll get one eventually but do you think the best way to get a boyfriend is to ask him out, wait till they ask you out or what? how do you think is the best way to get a boyfriend? please help I'm not desperate it may sound like I am but thats only because I like to put a lot of expression into things that are serious anyway please help me A.S.A.P. !!!
2007-01-13 04:48:57 · 17 answers · asked by joelle 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Talk to him, be friendly, nice, and maybe ask him to the movies with some friends. Its should all work out if your nice about it.
2007-01-13 05:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by aitlin_cay10@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol It Depends...If You Like A Guy.>But You KNOW FOR SURE That He Doesnt Like You..Its Not Worth Asking Him Out...If You Know He Likes You But He Wont Admit It(You Heard From Someone Else) Flirt With Him...Let Him Know You're Interested..If He Still Doesnt Ask You Out..Then You Ask Him If Hes Doing Anything This Weekend...If He Says No..Then Ask Him If He Wants To Do Something With You...(Make Sure You Have Something Planned) Yes..Then Great..No..Then Forget Him And Move On..
2007-01-13 12:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, #1, just be yourself. if a guy doesn't like you for you, then he's not right for you, no matter how cute he is.
#2, flirt, flirt, flirt. the best way to get a guys attention is to show him your interested. but don't go over the top, just subtle flirting, not too much though, you don't want to come across as desperate.
#3, if he's still not getting the hint, or you think he likes you, but he's not doing anything to ask you out, call him and ask him out. alot of boys like when girls make the first move.
good luck!
xxo
2007-01-13 12:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by asdjklgracie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instructrions :
* STEP 1: Know what type of guy you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.
* STEP 2: Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old boyfriends.
* STEP 3: Attract the type of guy you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.
* STEP 4: Learn how to make a guy feel good about himself by taking an interest in his life and his aspirations.
* STEP 5: Consider any unattached guys at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a boyfriend?
* STEP 6: Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new guys. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.
* STEP 7: If you have your eye on a certain guy, let mutual friends know about your interest in him. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell him about your interest.
* STEP 8: If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a guy who has caught your eye, consider being his secret admirer for a while. Send him sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let him know about your interest in him.
Tips & Warnings
* Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right guy for you.
* Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a boyfriend. Be selective to find the right guy for you.
2007-01-13 12:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by chubbysylph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get a boyfriend is to just be yourself. don't try to be something that you are not. if there is a certain boy that you like, just hang out with him....have fun...don't make a relationship out of it. and if it continues to work out, then let him know that you like him as more than a friend. but basicly just be yourself.
a boy doesnt want somebody who is fake, no matter what they say or do, they want the normal 'you' not someone that you are not. i would know. i am a guy
2007-01-13 12:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by nhhsgolfer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better for the guy to ask the girl out. I dunno, that's just me :/
But you need to show guys your interested. Be yourself, first of all. If a guy doesn't like you for who you are, he's not worth it. But make sure you flirt with a guy instead of just being friendly - otherwise, he may think you just want to be friends and that's all. But don't go and flirt with just about every guy you see - that'll earn you a reputation as a slut. Also, don't try to rush into a relationship. Flirt with a guy, and even if he seems interested, just stay friends for a while until your sure you like him enough to go out with him.
2007-01-13 13:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,you don't look at a boyfriend and say he is "MINE"!!You have to find a really cool person who respects u in every way that u r!!I think this advice will help u!!
2007-01-13 12:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by cool_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..... it is better if u wait till he/someone ask u out. u can also give that person some signs that u like him and stuff. example like flirt with him. just make sure he doesnt have a gf.
2007-01-13 12:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by mi2z_myst3ry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, keep your legs closed, and wait for the right guy. Don't settle just cause he's cute, or popular. You will have TONS of chances, please don't rush. I wish I could turn back the hands of time and do things WAY different.
2007-01-13 13:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by micmac_9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew but there's this one article in a seventeen mag. I'll just ask my Friend and answer again.
2007-01-13 14:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Pink Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋